Do most girls prefer not to see Black guys?

[Cassandra]

You too are Racist.You quite simple don't understand the basics of Human Rights.

I don't think you do either. The way you're spamming the thread, you don't really care about this issue at all. I've met so many people like you. No comprehension of racism,feminisr any nor any social injustice.
Just a desperate need of prove yourself.
I have no doubt you're "very much against racism" but would cringe real quick if your child (when you have them) brought a black guy or girl home.
If you really want to do some good stop spamming, go deal with whatever is really going on in your life and let this incredibly important issue be discussed.

[Petros]

This is a quite serious thread/issue that is been skirted around. I personally think that any escort that refuses to see a client based on their skin color should be outed. This is racism plain and simple.


I would refuse to see such an escort with such an attitude on principle. Disgraceful.

This is your choice — just as it is the escorts choice who she sees!

Anyone who pulls the "race card" when dealing with an escort clearly does not understand what they are involved with! It is a privilege to be allowed to see and escort — it is not a public service where everyone has a given right!

[Barney Rubble]

So if a punter prefers the services of white ladies is he racist ? Alternatively if he's white & prefers black ladies is he a reverse racist ? Just wondering....

[JayOka]

It's a business and a very personalised business so the escorts absolutely have the right to see who they damn well please. I've no quarrel with that. It's just frustrating to call someone up, get on fine with them until they found out that you're black.

It wastes my time and theirs.

[Westsidex]

So, I decided to browse the site a couple of weeks ago and called a few of the escorts. I have a hybrid Irish - West African accent and a few asked me if I was black and when I informed them that I was indeed, they told me that they preferred not to or didn't see black men. Fair enough. Business is business and if you would prefer not to take my custom, then that's your call.

Eventually I found a girl I liked, gave her a call, had a chat and she seemed friendly. Arranged a meeting with her for the weekend. Called her, made my way there, parked up and rang again for her to buzz me in. Nothing. Went back to the car and sent a text. Nothing. Waited for ten minutes and gave out one last Hail Mary call. Nothing. I eventually got the message.

I'm relatively well built, tall, drive a nice car and dress well. It was dark out but the only reason I can think of for her avoiding me, is her looking out and seeing that I'm a black dude.

Shit sucks, man.

Do most escorts prefer not to see Black men? It would be nice if they stated that on their profiles. Are a lot of Black dudes that see escorts dodgy? Too big?

Sorry for rambling, thoughts are a bit muddled right now.

Are you calling to them at night time? I mean unless you smile how can she see you?

Westside.

[Rocker123]

Mushi said:
Let me be clear, An escort has every right to refuse a client but nobody has a right to refuse someone based on their skin color and anyone that does can Fuck Off.

I think we all agree with your first point there. "An escort has every right to refuse a client".

She can refuse any client whom she believes may not treat her well. No question about that.

If an escort believes that a particular group of people with something in common have treated escorts badly in the past i think it is very reasonable for that lady to refuse a person from that group... Best not take a chance attitude.

For example i know a mechanic who has been ripped off over and over again by members of a specific irish culture here in ireland. So much so that he refuses to accept work from them now. Other mechanics in the area ..... Rather that accept work and risk the strong likelihood of being ripped off too act the same. I cannot blame these mechanics for their actions.

I would imagine that escorts refusing to see men with black skin are doing so .... Not because they dislike black skin or dislike a specific nationality for the sake of it, but because they believe there is a stronger likelihood of being mistreated by such a man.... Based on information or beliefs she holds about that nationality or the culture of that nationality. The escort may of course be wrong in her belief and it is unfortunate that a pleasant polite coloured gent misses out.

So is an escort being racist by refusing to see a man with black skin. Technically yes she is. If she makes a judgement call based on skin colour yes that probable fits the definition of racism.

However..... And this a big however in my opinion...... Your first point... "An escort has every right to refuse a client" and if i may add..... "If she feels in some way uncomfortable or in danger"..... Is a far more important consideration that if she is racist or not in my opinion. We all want tonfeel comfortable in our work and this applies to escort as well as the rest of us.

I have been refused service by an escort on the basis of my age. Is that ageism? Yes.... But the escort in question is not comfortable with seeing someone as youthful and good looking as I am... (Little joke there...). Thats her call and thats fine with me.

I am sure the op is a perfect gent. Hopefully some ladies with agree to see him.

[Westsidex]

Mushi said:
Let me be clear, An escort has every right to refuse a client but and anyone that does can Fuck Off.

I think we all agree with your first point there. "An escort has every right to refuse a client".

She can refuse any client whom she believes may not treat her well. No question about that.

If an escort believes that a particular group of people with something in common have treated escorts badly in the past i think it is very reasonable for that lady to refuse a person from that group... Best not take a chance attitude.

For example i know a mechanic who has been ripped off over and over again by members of a specific irish culture here in ireland. So much so that he refuses to accept work from them now. Other mechanics in the area ..... Rather that accept work and risk the strong likelihood of being ripped off too act the same. I cannot blame these mechanics for their actions.

I would imagine that escorts refusing to see men with black skin are doing so .... Not because they dislike black skin or dislike a specific nationality for the sake of it, but because they believe there is a stronger likelihood of being mistreated by such a man.... Based on information or beliefs she holds about that nationality or the culture of that nationality. The escort may of course be wrong in her belief and it is unfortunate that a pleasant polite coloured gent misses out.

So is an escort being racist by refusing to see a man with black skin. Technically yes she is. If she makes a judgement call based on skin colour yes that probable fits the definition of racism.

However..... And this a big however in my opinion...... Your first point... "An escort has every right to refuse a client" and if i may add..... "If she feels in some way uncomfortable or in danger"..... Is a far more important consideration that if she is racist or not in my opinion. We all want tonfeel comfortable in our work and this applies to escort as well as the rest of us.

I have been refused service by an escort on the basis of my age. Is that ageism? Yes.... But the escort in question is not comfortable with seeing someone as youthful and good looking as I am... (Little joke there...). Thats her call and thats fine with me.

I am sure the op is a perfect gent. Hopefully some ladies with agree to see him.

nobody has a right to refuse someone based on their skin color

Course they can. what are you going to do? go to the local gardai and complain that an escort wont see you because of x y or z?

I have nothing against black people because you have as many whaite a'holes and black ones but some really dig this colour stuff up too much.

Westside.

[Rocker123]

nobody has a right to refuse someone based on their skin color

Course they can. what are you going to do? go to the local gardai and complain that an escort wont see you because of x y or z?

I have nothing against black people because you have as many whaite a'holes and black ones but some really dig this colour stuff up too much.

Westside.

I am not disagreeing with you man.

[Amy Alison]

When it comes to sex and allowing someone into your private space, everbody has all the rights of accepting and refusing appointments.

You all have your preferences when it comes to escorts. Plenty of guys are posting that they only go a specific type of an escort and you are not going to see the escorts that don't fit the guy's criteria that he is (insert bad adjective here) an ageist, a racist, doesn't like natural bodies etc.

A personal preference is a personal preference and if that would not matter, all escorts wouldn't even need to use profile pictures anymore.

So each with their own when it comes to sex, you cannot force someone to see you. My advice for the OP, make a PM booking explaining the girl that you are black but treat women decently, once you have a review or two under your belt most girls will book you because I am sure it's not the actual colour of the skin they are afraid of, it's what they think you could be someone treating women like commodities.

[TiffanyTees]

Black friendly ? White friendly ? NO Im Punter friendly.

Tiff ( oYo ) xx