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  1. 06-01-16, 22:48 #51
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    Quote Originally Posted by jessicabp View Post
    He said , just I don't pay.

    What I can do ?

    What a complete and utter toad. Cunty toad. Personally I would remind him that non payment of services is theft, and put his number on every gay site in Ireland.
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    Quote Originally Posted by harsh View Post
    I think the entire "pay later" thing is quite one-sided and unfair to the lady (per se). Because the person goes to THIER apartment seeking to meet them. Once he is out of there, there's no way to reach him. Whereas, the lady has a physical location - her apartment - a number she isn't likely to change - and a place where others can discuss her - forums and reviews. So I think that it's much safer for both the person and lady to have the money arrangement right at the start. I myself don't want the lady to wonder whether I'm going to pay throughout the encounter. It's a bit different when you know a person - they're regular or just known to be decent, a certain amount of trust build up.
    thats all fine right up until jessicabp told of her experience. the lesson? no mater if a regular or not, always get money out of the way before things begin, I mean there is nothing to be gained from waiting till the end (unless you intentionally want to rip her off?) all it means is one or both of you are deluded about the arrangement and are in a state of "I wonder if... "
    you must draw a line and stick to it. end of story.
    at worst it means shes distracted during the appointment and dont get her full commitment to the action, at best you leave yourselves open to an embarassing situation at the end or middle
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    Quote Originally Posted by jessicabp View Post
    Look ! I had a regular client in Dublin 4 , he visited me 8 times , the last time I didn't ask the money before, and he didn't pay later .
    What is this ???
    Perhaps, just perhaps he plain forgot... Did you try to contact him.. If that was possible of course...

    It has happened to me, I forgot to pay once. And its with a girl we all know here.. But it can happen... ESPECIALLY with a regular lady. So to not take his call in the future may not be the best idea. Maybe once you "jokingly" mention the last time... all could be good.

    Regular client?????
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    Quote Originally Posted by JAMESCORK View Post
    Perhaps, just perhaps he plain forgot... Did you try to contact him.. If that was possible of course...

    It has happened to me, I forgot to pay once. And its with a girl we all know here.. But it can happen... ESPECIALLY with a regular lady. So to not take his call in the future may not be the best idea. Maybe once you "jokingly" mention the last time... all could be good.

    Regular client?????
    she said that HE SAID he wasnt going to pay when she asked him, her english was a bit broken about it, but thats what it looked like to me after a couple of reads and some fudging! see below..

    Quote Originally Posted by jessicabp View Post
    He said , just I don't pay.

    What I can do ?
    in other words... "he just said..I m not paying, so what could I do?"

    thats how I took it to mean
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    Quote Originally Posted by JAMESCORK View Post
    Perhaps, just perhaps he plain forgot... Did you try to contact him.. If that was possible of course...

    It has happened to me, I forgot to pay once. And its with a girl we all know here.. But it can happen... ESPECIALLY with a regular lady. So to not take his call in the future may not be the best idea. Maybe once you "jokingly" mention the last time... all could be good.

    Regular client?????
    Jessica already said he replied to her stating he won't pay. So cunty toad is fair game

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    maybe its one of those stamp things where in you visit seven times and get the eighth time free. thats good business if so
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    Quote Originally Posted by Lucy Chambers View Post
    Jessica already said he replied to her stating he won't pay. So cunty toad is fair game

    Jessica, gimme the number
    Right then.... He IS a prick so... "Cunty toad" it is then....
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    Quote Originally Posted by Meursault View Post
    maybe its one of those stamp things where in you visit seven times and get the eighth time free. thats good business if so
    It's not Angel. This is why I always tell clients never to lend ladies money against future appointments. If the phone rings with a paying client and she has to see you for free then she is going to resent the heck out of you. It's natural, the ladies are trying to make a living, of course they don't want to give free time away. Some ladies will give their regulars extra time, in which case thank your lucky stars. For an escort to work in Ireland the costs are around 1000 euro a week. No amount of goodwill will pay that.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Meursault View Post
    maybe its one of those stamp things where in you visit seven times and get the eighth time free. thats good business if so
    It would be that, except that this is plain taking advantage :/ What an indecent human being, to take advantage of someone like that.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Lucy Chambers View Post
    It's not Angel. This is why I always tell clients never to lend ladies money against future appointments. If the phone rings with a paying client and she has to see you for free then she is going to resent the heck out of you. It's natural, the ladies are trying to make a living, of course they don't want to give free time away. Some ladies will give their regulars extra time, in which case thank your lucky stars. For an escort to work in Ireland the costs are around 1000 euro a week. No amount of goodwill will pay that.
    Quote Originally Posted by harsh View Post
    It would be that, except that this is plain taking advantage :/ What an indecent human being, to take advantage of someone like that.
    i was only joking. can you imagine getting a card with a stamp on it to say you have had sex though
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