Pay before or after

[harsh]

I think the entire "pay later" thing is quite one-sided and unfair to the lady (per se). Because the person goes to THIER apartment seeking to meet them. Once he is out of there, there's no way to reach him. Whereas, the lady has a physical location - her apartment - a number she isn't likely to change - and a place where others can discuss her - forums and reviews. So I think that it's much safer for both the person and lady to have the money arrangement right at the start. I myself don't want the lady to wonder whether I'm going to pay throughout the encounter. It's a bit different when you know a person - they're regular or just known to be decent, a certain amount of trust build up.

[bonsten]

Those who I meet so far said it ok to pay after the session. I always make it a "policy" to get $ out of the way first before getting down to business.

[jessicabp]

You could name and shame him or take a contact out on him :-)

Of course I sent a report for E-I about my ex-client but I don't make any risk in the future.

[jessicabp]

Report him to the rest of the ladies so he doesn't get away with it a second time.............he's a low life scumbag.

I did it immediately.

[MollyDolly]

Look ! I had a regular client in Dublin 4 , he visited me 8 times , the last time I didn't ask the money before, and he didn't pay later .
What is this ???

but if he called again just charge him double

[jessicabp]

He has not any chance

[circumcised guy]

Look ! I had a regular client in Dublin 4 , he visited me 8 times , the last time I didn't ask the money before, and he didn't pay later .
What is this ???

He was probably under the delusion that because he was a regular he would get away with it. Got to big for his boots total gobshite. Did he ever ring you again after that Jessica?

[max california]

Hello there, stupid question here, but I would like to know if any of you lads pay after you dip your wick,

No, unless I forget, cos in 99.99% of cases, cash is king.
Plus it's uncomfortable being reminded and makes you feel like your taking advantage

[annabel taylor]

Look ! I had a regular client in Dublin 4 , he visited me 8 times , the last time I didn't ask the money before, and he didn't pay later .
What is this ???

A lessons learned for you sadly I honestly don't get the issue with paying guess it's the fantasy

[Lucy Chambers]

Its business, of course you pay first. Its rude not to. Take care of the paperwork. The girl won't give you a better service if she's worrying all the way through if she is going to get paid.