Pay before or after

[blue rebel]

Pay after the event? I'd like to see you try LOL

I have been to two Massage Escorts whom always take payment after event.
They are Independent Escorts too and not worklng in Massage Parlours. If I were
an Escort I would want payment up front Like majority of girls but there are some very
trusting Escorts out there and from what they told me they never had a problem with a client.

[Curvaceous Kate]

My brain goes to mush after an orgasm and I know it might sound stupid, but taking the money after, for me makes it feel less 'real', so I prefer to take the money at the start when my brain is still functioning and then I can relax and not worry that they may not pay, or I may forget to ask for it or we both forget. Thankfully on the few occasions I have forgotten to take the money at the start due to being an air head the clients have all been good and come back with the money. I even had one back in England who posted it through my letter box as I was out at the time.

I am very lucky that most of the people I get to meet are brilliant and lovely and I am starting to miss them now, so counting off the days to end my enforced celibacy lol. Life can really get in the way of a good time

[dragonjay]

Hello there, stupid question here, but I would like to know if any of you lads pay after you dip your wick, reason I'm asking is because before you pay them SOME are all nice as soon as money is handed over there not interested just want you out

Badger

Good luck with that lol, I always pay first but it happened to me once but in Amsterdam. She was Brazilian and boy she had some body on her and she was a very nice girl. I ended up seeing her again as she was so nice and the payment after sex really stuck with me.

[rubberlover]

At this stage I have a few regular girls and see, so its not an issue, but in the past I never experienced a lack of interest.

[funlover12]

the guys who live in fantasy land pay (or try to) at the end, pay up front, then you are grounded for what happens next, (this way you can remind yourself of if you forget what you need to bring with you when you call her ) because when you've paid you know why...when you haven't paid yet you can more easily delude yourself into thinking she doesn't really want the money she just wants you
its best when she leaves with it at the start, use the time to remember you've paid and let yourself get into character for to enjoy the meet knowing its happened cause you gave her money and everything which happens next is because.....she got money from you
if you remove the grounding reality then, well its not advised

#seasoned pro

[lapd]

Forgetting to pay there is term for that "Stealing" don't think you can test drive before you buy with ladies on here, maybe I just gone to wrong ones.

[harsh]

I think the entire "pay later" thing is quite one-sided and unfair to the lady (per se). Because the person goes to THIER apartment seeking to meet them. Once he is out of there, there's no way to reach him. Whereas, the lady has a physical location - her apartment - a number she isn't likely to change - and a place where others can discuss her - forums and reviews. So I think that it's much safer for both the person and lady to have the money arrangement right at the start. I myself don't want the lady to wonder whether I'm going to pay throughout the encounter. It's a bit different when you know a person - they're regular or just known to be decent, a certain amount of trust build up.

[funlover12]

I think the entire "pay later" thing is quite one-sided and unfair to the lady (per se). Because the person goes to THIER apartment seeking to meet them. Once he is out of there, there's no way to reach him. Whereas, the lady has a physical location - her apartment - a number she isn't likely to change - and a place where others can discuss her - forums and reviews. So I think that it's much safer for both the person and lady to have the money arrangement right at the start. I myself don't want the lady to wonder whether I'm going to pay throughout the encounter. It's a bit different when you know a person - they're regular or just known to be decent, a certain amount of trust build up.

thats all fine right up until jessicabp told of her experience. the lesson? no mater if a regular or not, always get money out of the way before things begin, I mean there is nothing to be gained from waiting till the end (unless you intentionally want to rip her off?) all it means is one or both of you are deluded about the arrangement and are in a state of "I wonder if... "
you must draw a line and stick to it. end of story.
at worst it means shes distracted during the appointment and dont get her full commitment to the action, at best you leave yourselves open to an embarassing situation at the end or middle

[Sexy Sandy 69]

Hello there, stupid question here, but I would like to know if any of you lads pay after you dip your wick, reason I'm asking is because before you pay them SOME are all nice as soon as money is handed over there not interested just want you out

Badger

It's donation first with me & with most girls. Get the 'business' out the way first, then both parties can relax & enjoy the time together.

Sandy x

[MALCOLM]

money first with most girls on first visit but when you become a regular it can change, its about trust and respect on both sides