I was just thinking about this in relation to myself today! I suppose as an early middle aged man, I should have come to some self realization at this stage. I came to the conclusion that I am a Scruffy, Taller, Younger, much more easily definable as Straight version of Francis Brennan without his money!
So in other words, I have deconstrucetd myself or else, Francis Brennan!
So who are you really?