Taking a risk - help me ladies

[willie wacker]

At this turn of events?

Is anybody helping here?

Nope ............

An other thread gone off topic ,,,,,,,, again

[xagerate]

At this turn of events?

Is anybody helping here?

Annabel took a wrong turn and Sophie was apparently in the car behind

[annabel taylor]

Has this something to do with a high speed car chase?

No green fairies

[cormac12345]

at least visiting escorts u get what u pay for. having affairs or no strings fun often gets messy. maybe move out of home for a while and take the big gamble and see what happens

[Stonie]

Crazy stuff, should you not been trying to get them into bed 10 years ago and would have explored that avenue before paying for sex, you got it the wrong way round but good luck lad.

[tom sand]

Bogman
i don't know dude
i do not know

[bollocks]

Life has been very hectic of late and posed me many challenges both in my home life, my health and those around me and in my work but am beginning to see light at the end of the tunnel.

Recently my wife and I had an animated discussion about our non existent sex life. We still sleep in the same bed but for more than half our married life have not had sex, in fact the last time was over ten years ago. It only bothers her if she thinks I am getting it elsewhere but she does not regard it as important. Its for procreation and that's it.

I have a wide circle of friends, none of whom know of my involvement with the ladies I meet here, and that circle includes several ladies whom I find attractive and I think some of them have a notion for me too. Some are married, not many, most are single and they range in age from half my age to older than me.

I think I am friendly, gregarious and able to talk to anyone about any topic and have them feel comfortable in my company.

My point is, and here's where I need advice, should I grab the bull by the horns and just tell some of these female friends that I would like to take them to bed if they were open to some NSA fun. How would some of you ladies respond if you were presented with this question and what would be the best words to use.

My thoughts are to meet them for coffee and just get to the point at some stage and just say it if the vibes were right.

The above would also describe mine and I suspect many others situation.

I suspect my other half, has a fairly good idea that I visit escorts. I also suspect that she feels that me visiting escorts is not threatening our marriage. I did have one fling which started off ok,,,,no secret was made of it,,,,but it soon got difficult.

The NSA visits to escorts seems safe enough. Also you are unlikely to get an STD from an escort, nor end up supporting another child for 18 years or more

[annabel taylor]

I was going to say something about washing up fairy liquid.

But then I remembered the OP didn't want to hear my opinion.

I'd say he won't like there's either

[JAMESCORK]

Life has been very hectic of late and posed me many challenges both in my home life, my health and those around me and in my work but am beginning to see light at the end of the tunnel.

Recently my wife and I had an animated discussion about our non existent sex life. We still sleep in the same bed but for more than half our married life have not had sex, in fact the last time was over ten years ago. It only bothers her if she thinks I am getting it elsewhere but she does not regard it as important. Its for procreation and that's it.

I have a wide circle of friends, none of whom know of my involvement with the ladies I meet here, and that circle includes several ladies whom I find attractive and I think some of them have a notion for me too. Some are married, not many, most are single and they range in age from half my age to older than me.

I think I am friendly, gregarious and able to talk to anyone about any topic and have them feel comfortable in my company.

My point is, and here's where I need advice, should I grab the bull by the horns and just tell some of these female friends that I would like to take them to bed if they were open to some NSA fun. How would some of you ladies respond if you were presented with this question and what would be the best words to use.

My thoughts are to meet them for coffee and just get to the point at some stage and just say it if the vibes were right.

So you expect to approach one of your lady friends and say "Look, I dont have sex with my wife anymore, but I would like to have sex with you instead, No strings attached... like..."

Insanity...

[Rocker123]

Life has been very hectic of late and posed me many challenges both in my home life, my health and those around me and in my work but am beginning to see light at the end of the tunnel.

Recently my wife and I had an animated discussion about our non existent sex life. We still sleep in the same bed but for more than half our married life have not had sex, in fact the last time was over ten years ago. It only bothers her if she thinks I am getting it elsewhere but she does not regard it as important. Its for procreation and that's it.

I have a wide circle of friends, none of whom know of my involvement with the ladies I meet here, and that circle includes several ladies whom I find attractive and I think some of them have a notion for me too. Some are married, not many, most are single and they range in age from half my age to older than me.

I think I am friendly, gregarious and able to talk to anyone about any topic and have them feel comfortable in my company.

My point is, and here's where I need advice, should I grab the bull by the horns and just tell some of these female friends that I would like to take them to bed if they were open to some NSA fun. How would some of you ladies respond if you were presented with this question and what would be the best words to use.

My thoughts are to meet them for coffee and just get to the point at some stage and just say it if the vibes were right.

My opinion: Stick to the ladies on EI.