Is it bad form to leave a poor review

[MALCOLM]

if its well deserved then NO

[Curvaceous Kate]

Hey all would like to get the opinion of others (including ladies) on my experience today. I've only ever left 3 reviews, all positive because the ladies reviewed just blew me away. All other punts have been either less than memorable to warrant a good review or not bad enough to deserve a bad review.
Anyways, met a lady today. Wouldn't have been my first choice but it was lashing rain and I didn't fancy driving too far. Got to her place and first impression was just OK. Asked for a shower to be shown a hose with a shower head!! Door and shower head holder both broken. Not a great start!! Got down to the business and it became very obvious that half the favourites were not on offer. The service was mediocre at best and broken bed making a lot of noise didn't help. In all I'd say it lasted less than 15 minutes. We had a good chat and a laugh after and the lady seemed to a bit of craic. I don't know if it was just a case of us not clicking or just the lady being too long in the business (in her 40's). Broken bed and shower not her fault but not my fault either and she charges enough to get a decent flat. The pictures were spot on and the lady was quite friendly overall so I would feel bad giving her a bad review. But I wouldn't recommend her to anybody cod there are much better out there (think nobody can compare to Luanna - god I love that girl!!) so maybe I should give her a review with a few red stars ??

I think you must be expecting what I'm going to say, so this will be no surpise to you, but wtf? Too long in the business in her 40's!!!! Do you think we are born into the business or something? I didn't start until my mid 30's and most would have retired before then, so can we not generalise about someone having been 'too long in the business' just because they are in their 40's!!!!!

Other than that, you have admitted yourself that you went to her out of a matter of convenience due to the weather, so where I agree that the facilities where far from adequate, I am not sure that her service really warrants a negative, plus think of it like this. If you were having to work in those conditions would it have an impact on your mood and the way you work? Maybe she has not worked there before and was as shocked with the facilities as you were and trying to make the best of a bad job. It could be getting to her.

Anyway, well done for getting a plug in for your favourite lady, I'm sure she will appreciate it I'm guessing she isn't in her 40's?

[bettercallsaul]

I think you must be expecting what I'm going to say, so this will be no surpise to you, but wtf? Too long in the business in her 40's!!!! Do you think we are born into the business or something? I didn't start until my mid 30's and most would have retired before then, so can we not generalise about someone having been 'too long in the business' just because they are in their 40's!!!!!

Other than that, you have admitted yourself that you went to her out of a matter of convenience due to the weather, so where I agree that the facilities where far from adequate, I am not sure that her service really warrants a negative, plus think of it like this. If you were having to work in those conditions would it have an impact on your mood and the way you work? Maybe she has not worked there before and was as shocked with the facilities as you were and trying to make the best of a bad job. It could be getting to her.

Anyway, well done for getting a plug in for your favourite lady, I'm sure she will appreciate it I'm guessing she isn't in her 40's?

Good point but you also made his point with the bit I referenced.

[Curvaceous Kate]

Good point but you also made his point with the bit I referenced.

My point there is that the majority are young and retire young. Just because you are mature, does not mean you have been working 2 decades and ready for the knackers yard, as you can pick up those lively occupation at any age and not need a C.V.

I don't remember what you wrote in your post and I only just read them all, so I'll go check again.

Just read it and I'm not in agreement. He is considering the 'lack lustre' experience is down to her age. I think that is uncalled for. I would say it was more likely be down to the environment if it was that or just the fact that she was not really his cup of tea (which he knew before he got there).

[bigboyjack]

I think you must be expecting what I'm going to say, so this will be no surpise to you, but wtf? Too long in the business in her 40's!!!! Do you think we are born into the business or something? I didn't start until my mid 30's and most would have retired before then, so can we not generalise about someone having been 'too long in the business' just because they are in their 40's!!!!!

Other than that, you have admitted yourself that you went to her out of a matter of convenience due to the weather, so where I agree that the facilities where far from adequate, I am not sure that her service really warrants a negative, plus think of it like this. If you were having to work in those conditions would it have an impact on your mood and the way you work? Maybe she has not worked there before and was as shocked with the facilities as you were and trying to make the best of a bad job. It could be getting to her.

Anyway, well done for getting a plug in for your favourite lady, I'm sure she will appreciate it I'm guessing she isn't in her 40's?

Well said Kate. Sorry, I wasn't being ageist. Probably just made a poor assumption. That said, I don't think she started yesterday eirther. Agree, there could be loads of factors, the apartment being one. The point I was making was that it wasn't my fault the apartment was a bit of a dump. It probably was a convenience appointment so maybe best just to write it off as a bad experience and keep quiet.

You're correct, Luanna is not in her 40's but Im thinking if she's still working in her 40's, I'll keep going !! Although I'll be heading for the bus pass then so might be a bit beyond me
Thanks Kate. Jack

[bettercallsaul]

My point there is that the majority are young and retire young. Just because you are mature, does not mean you have been working 2 decades and ready for the knackers yard, as you can pick up those lively occupation at any age and not need a C.V.

I don't remember what you wrote in your post and I only just read them all, so I'll go check again.

Just read it and I'm not in agreement. He is considering the 'lack lustre' experience is down to her age. I think that is uncalled for. I would say it was more likely be down to the environment if it was that or just the fact that she was not really his cup of tea (which he knew before he got there).

As I said I agree with your point but his generalisation was something you endorsed which was my point.

[Curvaceous Kate]

As I said I agree with your point but his generalisation was something you endorsed which was my point.

I didn't endorse it. Just because many retire before they hit their 40s doesn't mean anything. I was trying to say (in maybe not the best words possible), that a lady in her early 30's could easily have been working longer than I have and be far more jaded than a lady in her 40s who had only been working for a few years. It's not about the age, but the length of time worked and for some that might become tedious, or changed so much over time, it no longer gives them a buzz.

Me I started after the recession, so never knew the days where you could earn £300 in an hour, which is why I'm happy with what I earn and the way I work. I guess it's also about where you work and how you pace yourself, so lots of factors, but I would say your age is not one of them.

I shall get off my soap box now

[Curvaceous Kate]

Well said Kate. Sorry, I wasn't being ageist. Probably just made a poor assumption. That said, I don't think she started yesterday eirther. Agree, there could be loads of factors, the apartment being one. The point I was making was that it wasn't my fault the apartment was a bit of a dump. It probably was a convenience appointment so maybe best just to write it off as a bad experience and keep quiet.

You're correct, Luanna is not in her 40's but Im thinking if she's still working in her 40's, I'll keep going !! Although I'll be heading for the bus pass then so might be a bit beyond me
Thanks Kate. Jack

You do realise you just totally annihilated my out rage!!!! Thank God for Bettercallsaul lol xxx

[bettercallsaul]

You do realise you just totally annihilated my out rage!!!! Thank God for Bettercallsaul lol xxx

Thank god indeed,I get that a lot.

[bigboyjack]

You do realise you just totally annihilated my out rage!!!! Thank God for Bettercallsaul lol xxx

You made a good point.. Besides, I didn't fancy a war of words. You have 400 friends so there would only be one winner