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    Default Do you ever feel ashamed/bad that you use Escorts?

    Might be a little bit of a controversial question around here, I guess because, most guys will want to take the "alpha" response and give it, "hell no - it's awesome!!", and secondly, escorts may not be in favor of it cause, clients questioning their use of them, is not exactly encouraging good business.
    Hell maybe E-I would frown on this topic also, cause the escorts business is their business.

    But taking them things and putting them aside, to try and encourage some more genuine well thought out answers...

    Speaking for myself, when I was growing up, I never IMAGINED I would ever pay for sex, and thought that was only for the degenerates of society and/or guys that had non-existent sex lives and needed relief.

    Also growing up, getting with girls, it was always fun, and it was never particularly difficult.

    I suppose when I turned like, 20, I began to have greater expectations in terms of what them girls would deliver.
    I found it extremely disheartening to spend a night with a girl in a nightclub, or put a lot of work into a girl, bring her home, only to find out she doesn't want sex cause she doesn't want to feel "cheap".
    Then I'd meet girls that were more willing - but truth be told - and this is shameful, a lot of the time, I'd only find them reasonably attractive, maybe not even that attractive at all.
    But hey, a guys gotta do what he's gotta do.
    It's just one of the afflictions of being a man.

    I was about 22 when I moved to Amsterdam and, I was just coming out of a relationship with a little bit of animosity, and I suppose for myself, that's what really encouraged me to visit escorts/prostitutes initially.

    In that city, it's just right there, right in front of your nose and, it's just so easy.
    It became almost like a habit, a part of my lifestyle - and I thought nothing of it after a while.

    And now with E-I, it's really the same thing.
    It's just so easy.
    There are some fantastic looking girls, that really fulfill my every physical desire.

    Do I gotta stay out late and break my neck trying to hook up with some girl that I wouldn't look at twice if I wasn't so damn horny?
    Well, I still do but, if I'm unsuccessful for long enough, at least I know there's an alternative.

    Do I feel ashamed about it?

    Well, I feel ashamed that I sometimes put my mouth where some other guy was slapping his dick about 30 minutes earlier.

    You know what?
    I guess all in all, yeah I guess I do feel a little ashamed.

    But, at the same time, I still thoroughly enjoy it, and given my current situation - having some health problems that inhibit me from leading a fuller life and having the opportunity to attain these things more naturally - I would have to say that despite that little bit of shame, I'm still glad of the opportunity to visit escorts.

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    Good old catholic guilt eh? Where would we be without it.

    I don't see anything shameful in it, personally I'd be more ashamed of being in a relationship just for the sake of it, or for the sake of 'sex-on-tap'. I see a lot of people that I've grown up with in various forms of disintegrating relationships and the repressed resentment is often palpable. Not for me I'm afraid, if I can come to a mutually beneficial agreement with a lady that doesn't come with all that excess baggage then what's the harm and why should there be shame?


    I hope your not feeling that shame about putting "my mouth where some other guy was slapping his dick about 30 minutes earlier" in real-time, that's not a good sign.

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    Quote Originally Posted by John Dunne View Post
    Might be a little bit of a controversial question around here, I guess because, most guys will want to take the "alpha" response and give it, "hell no - it's awesome!!", and secondly, escorts may not be in favor of it cause, clients questioning their use of them, is not exactly encouraging good business.
    Hell maybe E-I would frown on this topic also, cause the escorts business is their business.

    But taking them things and putting them aside, to try and encourage some more genuine well thought out answers...

    Speaking for myself, when I was growing up, I never IMAGINED I would ever pay for sex, and thought that was only for the degenerates of society and/or guys that had non-existent sex lives and needed relief.

    Also growing up, getting with girls, it was always fun, and it was never particularly difficult.

    I suppose when I turned like, 20, I began to have greater expectations in terms of what them girls would deliver.
    I found it extremely disheartening to spend a night with a girl in a nightclub, or put a lot of work into a girl, bring her home, only to find out she doesn't want sex cause she doesn't want to feel "cheap".
    Then I'd meet girls that were more willing - but truth be told - and this is shameful, a lot of the time, I'd only find them reasonably attractive, maybe not even that attractive at all.
    But hey, a guys gotta do what he's gotta do.
    It's just one of the afflictions of being a man.

    I was about 22 when I moved to Amsterdam and, I was just coming out of a relationship with a little bit of animosity, and I suppose for myself, that's what really encouraged me to visit escorts/prostitutes initially.

    In that city, it's just right there, right in front of your nose and, it's just so easy.
    It became almost like a habit, a part of my lifestyle - and I thought nothing of it after a while.

    And now with E-I, it's really the same thing.
    It's just so easy.
    There are some fantastic looking girls, that really fulfill my every physical desire.

    Do I gotta stay out late and break my neck trying to hook up with some girl that I wouldn't look at twice if I wasn't so damn horny?
    Well, I still do but, if I'm unsuccessful for long enough, at least I know there's an alternative.

    Do I feel ashamed about it?

    Well, I feel ashamed that I sometimes put my mouth where some other guy was slapping his dick about 30 minutes earlier.

    You know what?
    I guess all in all, yeah I guess I do feel a little ashamed.

    But, at the same time, I still thoroughly enjoy it, and given my current situation - having some health problems that inhibit me from leading a fuller life and having the opportunity to attain these things more naturally - I would have to say that despite that little bit of shame, I'm still glad of the opportunity to visit escorts.
    I've read a few of your threads now. Are you doing a creative writing course or is this just a really weird new journalist approach? If the answers no to both forgive my curiosity, it's a curse.
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    I don't know if ashamed is the correct way to describe how I felt after I started to visit escorts...when a marriage has broken down and your getting sex at home for upwards of a year and the future is bleak with saving the marriage even though your trying...I think it would have been more hurtful to leave her and meet someone else and have an affair and be seen out and about by people that would know the wife but probably would tell her that they seen me...escorts have a useful purpose for people like me in shitty marriages..now my we are s3perated and I visit escorts,date etc...it's great....best of both world's
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    Quote Originally Posted by Lucy Chambers View Post
    I've read a few of your threads now. Are you doing a creative writing course or is this just a really weird new journalist approach? If the answers no to both forgive my curiosity, it's a curse.

    Probably legit Lucy as the guy has a few reviews under his belt.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mister Anderson View Post
    Probably legit Lucy as the guy has a few reviews under his belt.
    Ah, ok.

    I reckon most men feel guilty for paying for sex. You are all indoctrinated into that the same way women are indoctrined into believing it's wrong to sell sex. By the time all the brainwashing is finished you are ready for the grave.

    However....we have ways of alleviating the guilt and a really good blowjob should be paid for
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    Never feel guilt not one bit. I don't feel guilt going to the barber or the doctor either it's just a service. If I was emotionally attached to another woman I may feel a slight tingle (probably not lol) but if you are feeling guilt you are not using the service properly and it's not for you.

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    Fuck it you only live once bro

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lucy Chambers View Post
    Ah, ok.

    I reckon most men feel guilty for paying for sex. You are all indoctrinated into that the same way women are indoctrined into believing it's wrong to sell sex. By the time all the brainwashing is finished you are ready for the grave.

    However....we have ways of alleviating the guilt and a really good blowjob should be paid for

    I wholeheartedly agree, especially with that last bit
    All the best blowjobs I've had were paid for. Do I feel ashamed? Pffff, I would be doing the provider a disservice with that kind of attitude.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lucy Chambers View Post
    I've read a few of your threads now. Are you doing a creative writing course or is this just a really weird new journalist approach? If the answers no to both forgive my curiosity, it's a curse.
    I don't know, TV doesn't interest me and, good movies are hard to come by these days.

    How to explain the long posts?
    I guess I just like to throw on some good music and let the words flow out.

    Plus my old man was an English teacher....

    It's true though - I kind of like story telling and writing, but it's certainly not trolling.

    I just try to find a topic that interests me and write about it.

    I've always tried to emulate the Mark Twain writing style.
    He does it like no other.

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