Nothing ever changes darling, not in all the years I've been on, even with Sam like mods. Ladies bitch.. Tis their nature, men beat their chests and "protect" their "mates "
But personal stuff is too much and what happened to yourself and Sophie was ott and unacceptable... Even if you did still look cute, so it was a fail on their part.
I've never seen that many ladies be very active on here, apart from the odd chat night, when chat was good!
BTW you are rocking your new avatar and your new dark hair look