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    Quote Originally Posted by Forrest View Post
    The forums have been going downhill for a while, with lots of really stupid threads, and posters with little better to do than take the piss,
    and slag each other off, all day long. I’m glad I don’t have the time, or the desire, to LIVE on EI, or any other internet forum.
    I only logon when I’m totally bored, have a read for 20-30 mins, maybe post a bit, and then get back to reality.

    I don’t see why moderators such as Doc, Benin, Highwayman, or any of the previous UNPAID volunteers, should have been needed,
    when EI could easily afford to pay good rates to have it done properly and impartially, but the truth is they don’t care about members or escorts,
    as long as the money is rolling in from the advertising. I’m actually surprised Doc stuck it out for as long as he did!!!!!

    The current EI management team aren’t really interested in moderating unless you actually report a post so, as they don’t work outside office hours,
    the reported post won’t be dealt with for up to 12-24 hours. It seems to me anyway that EI glory in letting the bitching & trolling carry on through
    the evening/night, as it creates activity that brings traffic to their website.

    I saw a bit of what was posted last night and, while what followed was a completely over the top attack, the thread that was started by the OP seemed to me
    to be just another one of those ‘look at me, aren’t I clever’ sort of threads, that didn’t have a real topic as such. It backfired spectacularly but, as someone
    else already commented, you reap what you sow. If you constantly seek attention, you will, at some point, get unwanted, and possibly unwarranted, attention.

    There has been a clique on the forum that have pretty much ruled the roost for quite some time, working on the premise that there’s no such thing as bad publicity,
    building up a fan club that has probably left other escorts feeling like there’s no point posting, as they will be swamped by the ‘cool gang’ and their supporters.

    Having said all of the above, there shouldn’t really be the necessity to moderate any adult forum, as it should be expected that adults would know
    how to behave and interact with other adults. When I first started posting on EI, it was to have a bit of banter with other members and flirt with the escorts,
    gain some understanding of the industry, and get a feel for lady behind the advertising pictures. I have, as result, met some lovely people that have made
    my life so much better.

    Sadly, the internet is full of keyboard warriors that don’t seem to be accountable for the potential pain they may cause by the things they write.
    I love it when I hear of some clown being pursued by the authorities after tweeting something vile about someone else.

    If EI don’t want to pay for 24 hour moderation, then we’re all going to just have to accept that sometimes idiots will post their crap.
    Things that can be done if there isn’t going to be late night moderation are the following:

    Reporting posts, without feeding the trolls. Ignore them so they don’t get the extra pleasure of a reaction.
    Trial run of a ‘read only’ period between midnight and 6.00am.
    All new registrations cannot post between the hours of midnight and 6.00am, or maybe give them a read-only period for the first month.

    None of the above will stop the trolls, but it may frustrate them enough to reduce the amount of trolling that occurs.
    By the way, this place is actually a lot less volatile than it was when I started reading it in 2006, and it was a year before I registered,
    and that was to leave my first review. Apologies for the long winded post, for those that read it until the end.
    Forrest,
    I agree totally with your excellent post.
    I feel exactly the same way.
    Used to post and have some banter and fun with the girls and some other posters, met some wonderful people as a result.
    Just a pity that it has gone downhill.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Rachel Divine View Post
    Some of ''us'' are not, just bitter and twisted going after a few popular escorts to ruin their lives.
    There are some jealous escorts on here, jealous of those maybe younger or more popular but should I agree be sorted out between themselves not brought to the the forums

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    Quote Originally Posted by bettercallsaul View Post
    I don't have a case but if I had now would be a good time to rest it
    Maybe it's time for the rebuttal

    Quote Originally Posted by bettercallsaul View Post
    Now if you read what I said earlier,in large parts it's a good post,obviously I can't condone the full post
    This is the part that you can't condone, I assume. As the original post was so long, and my eyes & fingers hurt, I have just attached the excerpt..

    Quote Originally Posted by Forrest View Post
    I saw a bit of what was posted last night and, while what followed was a completely over the top attack,
    the thread that was started by the OP seemed to me to be just another one of those ‘look at me, aren’t I clever’ sort of threads,
    that didn’t have a real topic as such. It backfired spectacularly but, as someone else already commented, you reap what you sow.
    If you constantly seek attention, you will, at some point, get unwanted, and possibly unwarranted, attention.
    My point here was not condoning, or excusing, the proponents of the verbal assault on Sophie & Rachel. I was offering a possible
    explanation for why it might have happened. If you're going to constantly seek attention on the internet, at some point someone
    is likely to take a pop. I have met with Rachel professionally on a couple of occasions, and she is a really lovely young woman,
    completely different to the persona she projects here. I did express my concern to Rachel about the way she was being perceived,
    but she obviously had her own ideas about how to deal with life online. I didn't agree with it, but accepted that Rachel is strong
    minded enough to know what's best for her career.

    These are my last words on the subject. I'm going to hide away in a corner now and hope Rachel & Sophie can't find me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Beast View Post
    I put fourth my recommendation

    Irishdeltaforce
    Quote Originally Posted by bettercallsaul View Post
    Fourth? I would have him in the top three

    Quote Originally Posted by Stephanie View Post
    Saul ,

    I like you .

    So , ahead of time I apologise for what I'm about to say : you are a fecking moron !! For picking up on

    spelling mistakes etc. and making inane ignorant irritating posts about them . For a laff ??

    For f*ck's Sake !!!! You are SO MUCH smarter than that !!!
    I'm think your being a tad over sensitive here Steph. It was a tongue in cheek remark with no malice intended and sure none was taken by beast. In fact I missed the post first time as I think I was posting myself, and had a chuckle myself when I read it.
    Saul is a very witty and intelligent post and I would miss his presence on the boards. I agree when he hanging out with his fraternity buddies, he gets lazy and his posting standards drop to align with theirs, I guess.
    “Be yourself; everyone else is already taken.” - Oscar Wilde

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    Quote Originally Posted by Forrest View Post
    The forums have been going downhill for a while, with lots of really stupid threads, and posters with little better to do than take the piss,
    and slag each other off, all day long. I’m glad I don’t have the time, or the desire, to LIVE on EI, or any other internet forum.
    I only logon when I’m totally bored, have a read for 20-30 mins, maybe post a bit, and then get back to reality.

    I don’t see why moderators such as Doc, Benin, Highwayman, or any of the previous UNPAID volunteers, should have been needed,
    when EI could easily afford to pay good rates to have it done properly and impartially, but the truth is they don’t care about members or escorts,
    as long as the money is rolling in from the advertising. I’m actually surprised Doc stuck it out for as long as he did!!!!!

    The current EI management team aren’t really interested in moderating unless you actually report a post so, as they don’t work outside office hours,
    the reported post won’t be dealt with for up to 12-24 hours. It seems to me anyway that EI glory in letting the bitching & trolling carry on through
    the evening/night, as it creates activity that brings traffic to their website.

    I saw a bit of what was posted last night and, while what followed was a completely over the top attack, the thread that was started by the OP seemed to me
    to be just another one of those ‘look at me, aren’t I clever’ sort of threads, that didn’t have a real topic as such. It backfired spectacularly but, as someone
    else already commented, you reap what you sow. If you constantly seek attention, you will, at some point, get unwanted, and possibly unwarranted, attention.

    There has been a clique on the forum that have pretty much ruled the roost for quite some time, working on the premise that there’s no such thing as bad publicity,
    building up a fan club that has probably left other escorts feeling like there’s no point posting, as they will be swamped by the ‘cool gang’ and their supporters.

    Having said all of the above, there shouldn’t really be the necessity to moderate any adult forum, as it should be expected that adults would know
    how to behave and interact with other adults. When I first started posting on EI, it was to have a bit of banter with other members and flirt with the escorts,
    gain some understanding of the industry, and get a feel for lady behind the advertising pictures. I have, as result, met some lovely people that have made
    my life so much better.

    Sadly, the internet is full of keyboard warriors that don’t seem to be accountable for the potential pain they may cause by the things they write.
    I love it when I hear of some clown being pursued by the authorities after tweeting something vile about someone else.

    If EI don’t want to pay for 24 hour moderation, then we’re all going to just have to accept that sometimes idiots will post their crap.
    Things that can be done if there isn’t going to be late night moderation are the following:

    Reporting posts, without feeding the trolls. Ignore them so they don’t get the extra pleasure of a reaction.
    Trial run of a ‘read only’ period between midnight and 6.00am.
    All new registrations cannot post between the hours of midnight and 6.00am, or maybe give them a read-only period for the first month.

    None of the above will stop the trolls, but it may frustrate them enough to reduce the amount of trolling that occurs.
    By the way, this place is actually a lot less volatile than it was when I started reading it in 2006, and it was a year before I registered,
    and that was to leave my first review. Apologies for the long winded post, for those that read it until the end.
    Forest I agree with much of what you have said, most very well made points. However the paragraph hi-lighted was a bit out of character ill-judged for you Forest.
    What was said by Sophie in no way warranted the vicious attack that ensued. It's akin to saying, "well what did she expect when she dresses like that"
    Last edited by Best Before; 30-10-15 at 09:51.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Best Before View Post
    I'm think your being a tad over sensitive here Steph. It was a tongue in cheek remark with no malice intended and sure none was taken by beast. In fact I missed the post first time as I think I was posting myself, and had a chuckle myself when I read it.
    Saul is a very witty and intelligent post and I would miss his presence on the boards. I agree when he hanging out with his fraternity buddies, he gets lazy and his posting standards drop to align with theirs, I guess.
    Just a tap,perhaps



    Anyway stop defending me,I prefer the attacks,I have no Idea how to respond to someone calling me nice things

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    Quote Originally Posted by Forrest View Post
    Maybe it's time for the rebuttal



    This is the part that you can't condone, I assume. As the original post was so long, and my eyes & fingers hurt, I have just attached the excerpt..



    My point here was not condoning, or excusing, the proponents of the verbal assault on Sophie & Rachel. I was offering a possible
    explanation for why it might have happened. If you're going to constantly seek attention on the internet, at some point someone
    is likely to take a pop. I have met with Rachel professionally on a couple of occasions, and she is a really lovely young woman,
    completely different to the persona she projects here. I did express my concern to Rachel about the way she was being perceived,
    but she obviously had her own ideas about how to deal with life online. I didn't agree with it, but accepted that Rachel is strong
    minded enough to know what's best for her career.

    These are my last words on the subject. I'm going to hide away in a corner now and hope Rachel & Sophie can't find me.
    I shall also let it end there,mostly cause I see you keep digging regardless

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    Quote Originally Posted by Digicube View Post
    Very well said and reiterating a lot of points I made earlier so we are obviously on the same wavelength. I neither have the time or the interest either to waste here usually. However others like Petros seem to be in a different position and actually take offence almost to mine and your comments regarding the usefulness of the forum. I respect their opinion though and obviously the forum is a lot more important in their lives. Hopefully that will never be my situation as I prefer to spend most of my time enjoying the real world rather than this cyber one. Each to their own and if it's providing a service to these guys then I suppose there is another side to it, albeit one I don't get
    It appears to me that although you would rather be living your life in the real world as you call it, the draw of this forum is to much to resist...

    JUST GET RID OF IT.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Best Before View Post
    I'm think your being a tad over sensitive here Steph. It was a tongue in cheek remark with no malice intended and sure none was taken by beast. In fact I missed the post first time as I think I was posting myself, and had a chuckle myself when I read it.
    Saul is a very witty and intelligent post and I would miss his presence on the boards. I agree when he hanging out with his fraternity buddies, he gets lazy and his posting standards drop to align with theirs, I guess.

    Cheap tongue in cheek coming from the same hole 24/7 wears thin .

    If you find such lowbrow simplistic 'humor' entertaining , Grand for you !!

    I find it tiresome x

    Obviously with his 'fraternity' he's been a scourge of the boards !!

    On his own (Saul) is a highly intelligent insightful person , and so that is why I am so greatly disappointed

    when he sinks so low . Repeatedly . For what !?? A cheap 'laff' ?? I expect more of him !!!
    I do what I want. I cannot do otherwise.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Stephanie View Post
    Cheap tongue in cheek coming from the same hole 24/7 wears thin .

    If you find such lowbrow simplistic 'humor' entertaining , Grand for you !!

    I find it tiresome x

    Obviously with his 'fraternity' he's been a scourge of the boards !!

    On his own (Saul) is a highly intelligent insightful person , and so that is why I am so greatly disappointed

    when he sinks so low . Repeatedly . For what !?? A cheap 'laff' ?? I expect more of him !!!
    Honestly stop expecting more,that way you won't be constantly disappointed.

    I really would prefer if you had me on ignore rather than getting so upset over such trivia.


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