Scammed

[Stonie]

If you decide to stand your ground it becomes a bit of a poker game:
- Who has most to lose if cops are called, or if you start making some noise?
- Who else is in the apartment that will appear if you don't leave?
- What will she do if you start searching drawers etc for your money?

This is a call you can only make at the time, and would depend a lot on the location. I certainly would not just walk away without at least trying to put pressure on her.

I have answered part of this in my reply to blue rebel but what you mean who else will appear?do you mean friend, pimp .....
I would never go searching for the money in her belongings or use any force to any lady but would just stay there until she voluntarily hands it back to me, two escorts have tried it on and both give the money back in the end, they're lucky I don't charge interest.

[casman]

What to do. You ring the girl, book the appointment, arrive and pay the fee..... then nothing.
After she secrets away the money she goes cold... Don't touch me, sob story. I walk out after the agreed time with no service.
She refused to do anything.

What would you do in this situation.

I feel for you buddy,has happened to me once before and hasn't happened since because i learned from it.
There is nothing you can do in this situation,unfortunately only move on and put it down to experience,that's why now i only visit ladies with genuine reviews.

[cormac12345]

happened me once in Munich years ago but i was drunk and thinkin with wrong head so it was mu own fault.
I dont drink now and only visit a couple of girls that i got to know thru the forum so dont get scamed

[Stephanie]

What to do. You ring the girl, book the appointment, arrive and pay the fee..... then nothing.
After she secrets away the money she goes cold... Don't touch me, sob story. I walk out after the agreed time with no service.
She refused to do anything.

What would you do in this situation.

I just read through this whole thread .

1. Have any of you even for the briefest moment consider that this particular Provider may not be here

on her own volition !??

Has it occurred to any of you even for the briefest moment that she may be forced or coerced to produce

X amount of €s / day , but she could not , she didn't want to , she couldn't bring herself to 'perform' !??

I read all this Anti-Escort sh*te (even from fellow escorts : commiserating with the poor bloke) , makes my blood boil !


2 . I'm sure there must be some scammer Escorts out there . I'm sure there are .

But why jump to that most negative conclusion !?

Can you consider that this might have been a person under duress , in dire straits !!?

And in THAT CASE , the proper response would've been to leave after the appointment time , and then

reach out to , call the Anonymous HelpLine where you can report cases of suspected abuse or coercion or trafficking .


: It's a two-fer-one ;-) >> if she a scammer , you gave it to her .

If she's a lost soul in need of help , you also gave it to her .



Why the fe*k assume the worst of another !???

Escorts are People !

There are good , there the bad , and there'd be the Ugly ...

But guys !! Please have a bit of humanity about you !

Please x

[Stephanie]

Ps. If you find yourself with more than a couple of questionable encounters , less than satisfactory appointments /

experiencess , I'd suggest you overview your selection process .

Be methodical:

In your own mind establish rules that you will keep to : verified photos , check ; allows Reviews , check ;

location is not a highly used / high traffic premises functioning as a conveyor belt , check ; Provider charging

a decent amount / encounter , check ; etc ...

Aim higher !

: Pays dividends xxx

[MidlifeCrisis]

I just read through this whole thread .

1. Have any of you even for the briefest moment consider that this particular Provider may not be here

on her own volition !??

Has it occurred to any of you even for the briefest moment that she may be forced or coerced to produce

X amount of €s / day , but she could not , she didn't want to , she couldn't bring herself to 'perform' !??

I read all this Anti-Escort sh*te (even from fellow escorts : commiserating with the poor bloke) , makes my blood boil !


2 . I'm sure there must be some scammer Escorts out there . I'm sure there are .

But why jump to that most negative conclusion !?

Can you consider that this might have been a person under duress , in dire straits !!?

And in THAT CASE , the proper response would've been to leave after the appointment time , and then

reach out to , call the Anonymous HelpLine where you can report cases of suspected abuse or coercion or trafficking .


: It's a two-fer-one ;-) >> if she a scammer , you gave it to her .

If she's a lost soul in need of help , you also gave it to her .



Why the fe*k assume the worst of another !???

Escorts are People !

There are good , there the bad , and there'd be the Ugly ...

But guys !! Please have a bit of humanity about you !

Please x

It's possible you are right that she needs help. Reminding people of that possibility, and of the helpline is a good idea, but ranting about "anti-escort shite" is inappropriate.

This girl is not an escort - she is a scammer, and what you read was anti-scammer shite.

There was nothing in the original post suggesting that she appeared frightened, and others did not read it that way, but you are right to point out that possibility. Your point would have been better made without the patronising high horse.

[Stephanie]

It's possible you are right that she needs help. Reminding people of that possibility, and of the helpline is a good idea, but ranting about "anti-escort shite" is inappropriate.

This girl is not an escort - she is a scammer, and what you read was anti-scammer shite.

There was nothing in the original post suggesting that she appeared frightened, and others did not read it that way, but you are right to point out that possibility. Your point would have been better made without the patronising high horse.

Inappropriate my ear !! Rant ? Rather an opinion .


: were you in the room to know this particular provider being a scammer or a victim ??

Patronise your relatives .

[MidlifeCrisis]

Inappropriate my ear !! Rant ? Rather an opinion .


: were you in the room to know this particular provider being a scammer or a victim ??

Patronise your relatives .

She's not a provider. You have labelled everyone in the thread but yourself as inhuman and anti-escort. They aren't.

[Stephanie]

She's not a provider. You have labelled everyone in the thread but yourself as inhuman and anti-escort. They aren't.

Troll your Uncle.

I'm not playing your game .

I put forth a legitimate , well meaning point and you're nitpicking trying to find fault and inflame .

The whole thread had / has a very strong , very clear Anti Escort ethos .

I disagree with such mentality .

[Stephanie]

She's not a provider. You have labelled everyone in the thread but yourself as inhuman and anti-escort. They aren't.

Inappropriate my ear !! Rant ? Rather an opinion .


: were you in the room to know this particular provider being a scammer or a victim ??

Patronise your relatives .

Well ?