just sex or

[MidlifeCrisis]

Here we go with the poor deluded fools again.
Lads it's a BUISNESS pure and simple.
Of course the ladies will chat and have a coffee with you ,
Let's be honest how would you rather earn 200 euro,
drink coffee and chat or suck a strangers cock.
The ladies are skilled at what they do and they give the GFE in an attempt
to get repeat clients.
Repeat clients are easier and better for BUISNESS
Ladies will tell you exactly what you want to hear.
For 4 years I have a once a week girl I visit for an hour.
If she is touring or not advertising I visit someone else
I don't ask questions and I don't get told lies.
For the last time ITS A BUISNESS
and if you think the ladies have feelings of friendship for you
you are deluded and it's time to give up punting.

Do you think that all escorts are the same and all clients are the same - that every escort is indifferent to which client is walking in the door? Escorts and clients are people with personalities, and as varied a bunch as you will get anywhere.

It is a business. Every business relationship starts with an automatic and insincere "Pleased to meet you", but in any business, genuine friendships can start this way.

It is just as stupid to think that all e/c relationships can never move beyond pure pretence as it is to think that all of them are real.

I know that what you say is true for most appointments, and for nearly all first meetings, but I have no doubt that I have met some genuinely nice girls, and on a few occasions clicked with them.

[Catriona]

Going by my Twitter account and some of the stuff I have done politically - a lot of clients want to meet me for that reason alone. I said on Twitter I use a Linux operating system and a few guys found that incredibly attractive and wanted to see for that reason. There's deffo some, who see me for the sex alone, but I find the way the sex industry is going it's about making your personality stand out. You see this with porn stars having instagram, twitter and Facebook, cause clients want to know that there's an interesting person there.

[Petros]

Is it just sex or do you like to get
To know that escort /client
If they become a regular

Let's not lose sight of the OP here.

I don't think the question as about getting to know an escort so well that you end up marrying them. It was more about do clients just see them for wham bam thank you ma'am sex or do they prefer to take it more slowly and have a chat and a laugh together.

[nonpareil]

^ such a negative post...

He is a happy go lucky kinda guy.

[nonpareil]

TLDR is internet slang.
It means that if a post is over one line in length and isn’t about shoes or handbags Sophie won’t read it.

He likely understood that and she almost certainly read his post.;-)

[happygolucky]

I always thought he was till i read his last post. Probably got out the wrong side of bed to be fair.

No Sophie I am a happy go lucky type of guy
I've had a few upsets in my life and came through them
so I know that you make the best of what you have and enjoy.
I'm lucky enough to be financially secure and can enjoy life.
I know my post seemed a bit negative but some posters on here seem to think
that they are BFF with certain ladies.
Let's be honest , when you retire will you go out for a drink or a meal with all your regulars
or just let them know you're leaving and say goodbye.
I have a laugh and a joke with my regular lady
I used to stay after the appointment ( if the lady had no appointment and asked) for a coffe , smoke and a chat as the lady was trying to improve her English
I never told her too much about my private life just the basics and whatever she told me about hers was treated with a pinch of salt.
We had an arrangement where we are comfortable with each other and have a laugh
but if no money changes hands then we don't meet.
I've never asked her out socially and I would never ever contemplate such a question.

[Petros]

You kinda hit the nail on the head. When i visit a lady for the first time i always try and have a laugh and a giggle with her but i am definitely only there for sex .
If its a repeat visit then i always take things a lot slower and do my best to give her the orgasm of a life time ha.

The main thing is that you enjoy each others company and i can spot that being faked a mile off.

Yeah! Sometimes you just know you are not wanted there

But having said that - I met a lady once and from the time I walked in the door I got the impression she just didn't want me there or that I was not what she was expecting. I was considering leaving a less than 5 star review for her. Next thing I got a txt from her thanking me for visiting her and she hoped I would see her again

To cut a long story short - I have seen her loads of times since when she is in Ireland and we now get on like a house on fire together - and I would class her as "a friend"

Just goes to show the dangerous and pitfalls of the first appointment

[CockneyRebel]

He likely understood that and she almost certainly read his post.;-)

I'm not a hipster ffs! Fyi, omg,

[bootboy]

Yeah! Sometimes you just know you are not wanted there

But having said that - I met a lady once and from the time I walked in the door I got the impression she just didn't want me there or that I was not what she was expecting. I was considering leaving a less than 5 star review for her. Next thing I got a txt from her thanking me for visiting her and she hoped I would see her again

To cut a long story short - I have seen her loads of times since when she is in Ireland and we now get on like a house on fire together - and I would class her as "a friend"

Just goes to show the dangerous and pitfalls of the first appointment

Are you sure it was your escort texting you ?? bby

[bootboy]

Thanks for clarifying, just remember don't tar us all with the same brush

I don't think you need fear being taken as one of the herd .