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    Btw I love how everyone mentionin diets to him his excercise
    I'm not been smart but im guessing ye haven't experienced been big... truth is u can do all that u will fail u will hate yourself nd the horrible cycle continues

    U need to find out why u eat..what triggers you how to respond to that without binging

    Eat less move more is a very easy answer

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    I ate through boredom mainly .
    He seems to speak about self confidence and self- image.

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    Quote Originally Posted by bjornagain View Post
    This is a very difficult post for me.
    I used to punt years ago, but then gave it up after a bad experience.
    I've always had a poor self image and hate looking in the mirror, especially full length.
    I'm a big guy. 5ft 7" 17.8 stone, 42inch waist, 45yrs old and a small cock, 4 inches at most and only as thick as 2 fingers.
    With my belly it looks much smaller, although I have made a woman cum with it

    The last escort I saw humiliated me by making constant references to my belly, and in the end I couldn't get it up. She just laughed and said "it aint me baby" and pointed at her perfect body with big tits. I paid for an hour and was too dumb struck to ask for any money back or say anything, she didn't offer to massage me or anything and in the end I left after about 15 mins.
    I don't really blame her, shes just a young kid in her 20's, but I blame myself more for not looking after myself. Drinking and eating too much in my 30's, I piled it on.
    Ive cut back now, but it just wont shift

    I'm thinking of going back punting but the thought of that incident just puts me off.
    The girls Ive seen advertised here are all just amazingly beautiful, you think why would they even bother with me, when other better looking, fitter guys would hire them.
    I know engaging an escort is a professional contract and the good ones can really pretend well, but I just feel so revolted by myself and I cant stop thinking the escort will be secretly revolted as well. I'd really like to make her cum as well but I know a lot fake it and I'm not a great lover, enthusiastic and well meaning yes, but not a stud.

    So, has anyone else felt this way and managed to lose weight in their 40's or can recommend a good escort that wont mind a tubby man so much, or any thoughts on getting more self confident?
    I walk about 4/5k everyday and I'd love to even lose a stone, tried the milk shakes etc but still cant shift it

    thanks for reading this if you got this far.
    Sorry to be negative
    Good for you if you’ve started.

    You should want to lose weight for yourself though, not for escorts, or women in general. Otherwise it’s too easy to give up at the slightest rejection.
    You’ll never out exercise a bad diet so your diet is vital. Get away from any sort of ready meals and processed foods even if they say low fat or diet. It’s all rubbish, full of sugars and salts etc.
    Eat fresh vegetables, fish, chicken, some fruit, prepare the food yourself, pack a lunch each day, and keep a food diary, be honest with it.
    An app like My Fitness Pal is very useful, it contains a huge food database and a barcode scanner to keep track of calories and at the end of each day tells you what you’d weigh in 5 weeks if every day you ate what you did that day. As soon as you feel up to it join classes in whatever activity you think suits you. It makes it far easier to push yourself and stay motivated if you’re part of a group.

    As far as escorts, I agree you were unlucky in meeting the one you did. Most would be far more courteous.

    Don’t worry about trying to make an escort come, relax and enjoy yourself, it’s your dime.

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    Lots of great advice on this thread, and it's refreshing to see serious and thoughtful stuff from a few guys who spend most of their time making fun of each other.

    My guess is that most of the clients on here are unhappy with their body in one way or another.

    I think the best advice from above is to approach experienced escorts by PM, explaining your self-consciousness. The biggest worry is probably that an escort will be disappointed or put off when they meet you, and if you have exchanged PMs that is much less of a worry.

    From reading a lot of escort posts on here the most important things by far are being really thorough about hygiene, including mouthwash etc, and being gentle and respectful. They are used to all shapes and sizes. I don't think they could do the job if they did not enjoy making people feel good about themselves.

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    Quote Originally Posted by bjornagain View Post
    This is a very difficult post for me.
    I used to punt years ago, but then gave it up after a bad experience.
    I've always had a poor self image and hate looking in the mirror, especially full length.
    I'm a big guy. 5ft 7" 17.8 stone, 42inch waist, 45yrs old and a small cock, 4 inches at most and only as thick as 2 fingers.
    With my belly it looks much smaller, although I have made a woman cum with it

    The last escort I saw humiliated me by making constant references to my belly, and in the end I couldn't get it up. She just laughed and said "it aint me baby" and pointed at her perfect body with big tits. I paid for an hour and was too dumb struck to ask for any money back or say anything, she didn't offer to massage me or anything and in the end I left after about 15 mins.
    I don't really blame her, shes just a young kid in her 20's, but I blame myself more for not looking after myself. Drinking and eating too much in my 30's, I piled it on.
    Ive cut back now, but it just wont shift

    I'm thinking of going back punting but the thought of that incident just puts me off.
    The girls Ive seen advertised here are all just amazingly beautiful, you think why would they even bother with me, when other better looking, fitter guys would hire them.
    I know engaging an escort is a professional contract and the good ones can really pretend well, but I just feel so revolted by myself and I cant stop thinking the escort will be secretly revolted as well. I'd really like to make her cum as well but I know a lot fake it and I'm not a great lover, enthusiastic and well meaning yes, but not a stud.

    So, has anyone else felt this way and managed to lose weight in their 40's or can recommend a good escort that wont mind a tubby man so much, or any thoughts on getting more self confident?
    I walk about 4/5k everyday and I'd love to even lose a stone, tried the milk shakes etc but still cant shift it

    thanks for reading this if you got this far.
    Sorry to be negative
    jeezus christ, you're one miserable shit, no matter how bad you think you feel there are people worse off out there,
    I got a big belly and several escorts said , youre KFC's best customer and slapped my belly while another said when the baby elephant due, but its only shite, i say it took money to put that belly there and will take money to keep it there, my cocks not huge either, i'm starting to lose my hair and i dont take exercise, I drink and smoke and i dont give a shit, nature will take its course, i cant change it nor do i want to ..so I say Fuck it, i am what i am AND I'M A JOLLY BASTARD MOST OF THE TIME
    Last edited by MALCOLM; 22-09-15 at 00:09.

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    Quote Originally Posted by MALCOLM View Post
    jeezus christ, you're are one miserable shit, no matter how bad you think you feel there are people worse off out there,
    I got a big belly and several escorts said , youre KFC's best customer and slapped my belly while another said when the baby elephant due, but its only shite, i say it took money to put that belly there and will take money to keep it there, my cocks not huge either, i'm starting to lose my hair and i dont take exercise as i dont give a shit, nature will take its course, i cant change it nor do i want to ..so I say Fuck it, i am what i am AND I'M A JOLLY BASTARD MOST OF THE TIME
    What escorts are ye seeing that's awful behaviour
    To say that your face when u gotta get hard

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    Quote Originally Posted by annabel taylor View Post
    What escorts are ye seeing that's awful behaviour
    To say that your face when u gotta get hard
    I'd rather them say it than think it, no big deal, that was an Escort in Kent, an English lady in her mid twenties that said the Elephant joke and I was already hard, You'll be glad to hear I give her a good porking for it

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    Who fucking cares?

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    Quote Originally Posted by MALCOLM View Post
    I'd rather them say it than think it, no big deal, that was an Escort in Kent, an English lady in her mid twenties that said the Elephant joke and I was already hard, You'll be glad to hear I give her a good porking for it
    Hope u left her walkinh like John wayne

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    I used to care about what people thought about me and my looKs but I don't give a fuck now -

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