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    This is a very difficult post for me.
    I used to punt years ago, but then gave it up after a bad experience.
    I've always had a poor self image and hate looking in the mirror, especially full length.
    I'm a big guy. 5ft 7" 17.8 stone, 42inch waist, 45yrs old and a small cock, 4 inches at most and only as thick as 2 fingers.
    With my belly it looks much smaller, although I have made a woman cum with it

    The last escort I saw humiliated me by making constant references to my belly, and in the end I couldn't get it up. She just laughed and said "it aint me baby" and pointed at her perfect body with big tits. I paid for an hour and was too dumb struck to ask for any money back or say anything, she didn't offer to massage me or anything and in the end I left after about 15 mins.
    I don't really blame her, shes just a young kid in her 20's, but I blame myself more for not looking after myself. Drinking and eating too much in my 30's, I piled it on.
    Ive cut back now, but it just wont shift

    I'm thinking of going back punting but the thought of that incident just puts me off.
    The girls Ive seen advertised here are all just amazingly beautiful, you think why would they even bother with me, when other better looking, fitter guys would hire them.
    I know engaging an escort is a professional contract and the good ones can really pretend well, but I just feel so revolted by myself and I cant stop thinking the escort will be secretly revolted as well. I'd really like to make her cum as well but I know a lot fake it and I'm not a great lover, enthusiastic and well meaning yes, but not a stud.

    So, has anyone else felt this way and managed to lose weight in their 40's or can recommend a good escort that wont mind a tubby man so much, or any thoughts on getting more self confident?
    I walk about 4/5k everyday and I'd love to even lose a stone, tried the milk shakes etc but still cant shift it

    thanks for reading this if you got this far.
    Sorry to be negative

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    Quote Originally Posted by bjornagain View Post
    This is a very difficult post for me.
    I used to punt years ago, but then gave it up after a bad experience.
    I've always had a poor self image and hate looking in the mirror, especially full length.
    I'm a big guy. 5ft 7" 17.8 stone, 42inch waist, 45yrs old and a small cock, 4 inches at most and only as thick as 2 fingers.
    With my belly it looks much smaller, although I have made a woman cum with it

    The last escort I saw humiliated me by making constant references to my belly, and in the end I couldn't get it up. She just laughed and said "it aint me baby" and pointed at her perfect body with big tits. I paid for an hour and was too dumb struck to ask for any money back or say anything, she didn't offer to massage me or anything and in the end I left after about 15 mins.
    I don't really blame her, shes just a young kid in her 20's, but I blame myself more for not looking after myself. Drinking and eating too much in my 30's, I piled it on.
    Ive cut back now, but it just wont shift

    I'm thinking of going back punting but the thought of that incident just puts me off.
    The girls Ive seen advertised here are all just amazingly beautiful, you think why would they even bother with me, when other better looking, fitter guys would hire them.
    I know engaging an escort is a professional contract and the good ones can really pretend well, but I just feel so revolted by myself and I cant stop thinking the escort will be secretly revolted as well. I'd really like to make her cum as well but I know a lot fake it and I'm not a great lover, enthusiastic and well meaning yes, but not a stud.

    So, has anyone else felt this way and managed to lose weight in their 40's or can recommend a good escort that wont mind a tubby man so much, or any thoughts on getting more self confident?
    I walk about 4/5k everyday and I'd love to even lose a stone, tried the milk shakes etc but still cant shift it

    thanks for reading this if you got this far.
    Sorry to be negative
    Well your best bet is to look at the most reviewed girls here and send them a pm with your concerns.
    The good one,s will reply and will help u decide.

    A bit of personal advice, change your diet
    If your walking 4/5 km a day and not losing weight then it,s the food.
    Better eating will also help to make you a better lover as well, more veg , fruit and herbs.


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    I agree with Willie.

    Smoke herbs.


    Go for a jog.



    #sorted

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    Quote Originally Posted by willie wacker View Post
    Well your best bet is to look at the most reviewed girls here and send them a pm with your concerns.
    The good one,s will reply and will help u decide.

    A bit of personal advice, change your diet
    If your walking 4/5 km a day and not losing weight then it,s the food.
    Better eating will also help to make you a better lover as well, more veg , fruit and herbs.
    Fair play Wacker... Sound advice.

    Most established girls will more than accommodate you. If it makes you feel better maybe try and hint at your size in advance. Might relax you a bit, though most of these girls will have had a lot worse than you or me buddy...

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    Quote Originally Posted by bjornagain View Post
    This is a very difficult post for me.
    I used to punt years ago, but then gave it up after a bad experience.
    I've always had a poor self image and hate looking in the mirror, especially full length.
    I'm a big guy. 5ft 7" 17.8 stone, 42inch waist, 45yrs old and a small cock, 4 inches at most and only as thick as 2 fingers.
    With my belly it looks much smaller, although I have made a woman cum with it

    The last escort I saw humiliated me by making constant references to my belly, and in the end I couldn't get it up. She just laughed and said "it aint me baby" and pointed at her perfect body with big tits. I paid for an hour and was too dumb struck to ask for any money back or say anything, she didn't offer to massage me or anything and in the end I left after about 15 mins.
    I don't really blame her, shes just a young kid in her 20's, but I blame myself more for not looking after myself. Drinking and eating too much in my 30's, I piled it on.
    Ive cut back now, but it just wont shift

    I'm thinking of going back punting but the thought of that incident just puts me off.
    The girls Ive seen advertised here are all just amazingly beautiful, you think why would they even bother with me, when other better looking, fitter guys would hire them.
    I know engaging an escort is a professional contract and the good ones can really pretend well, but I just feel so revolted by myself and I cant stop thinking the escort will be secretly revolted as well. I'd really like to make her cum as well but I know a lot fake it and I'm not a great lover, enthusiastic and well meaning yes, but not a stud.

    So, has anyone else felt this way and managed to lose weight in their 40's or can recommend a good escort that wont mind a tubby man so much, or any thoughts on getting more self confident?
    I walk about 4/5k everyday and I'd love to even lose a stone, tried the milk shakes etc but still cant shift it

    thanks for reading this if you got this far.
    Sorry to be negative
    I am really sorry for what happen to you..
    I dont think a escort will ever do that...if she was not feeling allright to meet u..she just have to find amd escuse dont meet u...and dont take your money...
    I never did that with nobody..and i will never do..because in my job..i like to make u feel good.happy.confident and fully relaxed on my company...nobody is perfect and i meet diferent type of people...i dont care about apearance..what i really care when i meet a guy its to be a gentleman..and to be a clean one..if this condition exist..i always make u feell happy next to me..forget about age..kg or small size :*:*
    Hope next girl u will see will not be so bad. ..for nothing her body its so perfect if her personality its ugly

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    Quote Originally Posted by willie wacker View Post
    Well your best bet is to look at the most reviewed girls here and send them a pm with your concerns.
    The good one,s will reply and will help u decide.

    A bit of personal advice, change your diet
    If your walking 4/5 km a day and not losing weight then it,s the food.
    Better eating will also help to make you a better lover as well, more veg , fruit and herbs.
    ^^^ this...
    but not this, dafuq willie
    Last edited by funlover12; 21-09-15 at 23:40.


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    Quote Originally Posted by funlover12 View Post
    ^^^ this...
    but not this, dafuq willie
    He means celery increases your load.


    Pineapple adds flavour

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    Quote Originally Posted by bjornagain View Post
    This is a very difficult post for me.
    I used to punt years ago, but then gave it up after a bad experience.
    I've always had a poor self image and hate looking in the mirror, especially full length.
    I'm a big guy. 5ft 7" 17.8 stone, 42inch waist, 45yrs old and a small cock, 4 inches at most and only as thick as 2 fingers.
    With my belly it looks much smaller, although I have made a woman cum with it
    You may be surprised to know there are probably a lot more that might fit a similar description, so you are far from being alone.
    I'm not a big fan of seeing myself in the mirror either, so I try not to.


    Quote Originally Posted by bjornagain View Post
    The last escort I saw humiliated me by making constant references to my belly, and in the end I couldn't get it up. She just laughed and said "it aint me baby" and pointed at her perfect body with big tits. I paid for an hour and was too dumb struck to ask for any money back or say anything, she didn't offer to massage me or anything and in the end I left after about 15 mins.
    I don't really blame her, shes just a young kid in her 20's, but I blame myself more for not looking after myself. Drinking and eating too much in my 30's, I piled it on.
    Ive cut back now, but it just wont shift
    That was very bad form on the escort's part. Unfortunately, as in all professions, there are good and bad. I can assure you that not all escorts behave like that,
    or I wouldn't have had so many great experiences.

    Quote Originally Posted by bjornagain View Post
    I'm thinking of going back punting but the thought of that incident just puts me off.
    The girls Ive seen advertised here are all just amazingly beautiful, you think why would they even bother with me, when other better looking, fitter guys would hire them.
    I know engaging an escort is a professional contract and the good ones can really pretend well, but I just feel so revolted by myself and I cant stop thinking the escort will be secretly revolted as well. I'd really like to make her cum as well but I know a lot fake it and I'm not a great lover, enthusiastic and well meaning yes, but not a stud.
    Once again, you might be surprised at the number of actual studs that visit escorts. There are plenty that think they are, but..........
    All you can do, is try your best, relax, and enjoy the opportunity to please a sexy lady.

    Quote Originally Posted by bjornagain View Post
    So, has anyone else felt this way and managed to lose weight in their 40's or can recommend a good escort that wont mind a tubby man so much, or any thoughts on getting more self confident?
    I walk about 4/5k everyday and I'd love to even lose a stone, tried the milk shakes etc but still cant shift it

    thanks for reading this if you got this far.
    Sorry to be negative
    As Willie said, you probably need to look at your diet, as its more about what you put into your mouth, than any amount of exercise.
    Try not to eat late at night, drink more water, and smaller, regular, portions. Extra veg, less potato, cut out white bread for a while.
    I lost a couple of stone a few years ago with Hot Yoga, and a healthier diet, so anything is possible.

    There are plenty of good escorts that will be able to put you at ease, but it depends where you are based regarding recommendations.

    Emmasweet in Kildare ; Amy Alison in Santry; LarissaLamore tours a lot of Ireland; Patty also tours a lot. None of these ladies will make fun of you. Guaranteed.

    Finally, try to lose the negativity. It will hold you back.
    Last edited by Forrest; 21-09-15 at 23:44.

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    Quote Originally Posted by SmallHorn View Post
    He means celery increases your load.


    Pineapple adds flavour
    .......


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    Quote Originally Posted by SmallHorn View Post
    He means celery increases your load.


    Pineapple adds flavour
    Thanks
    Good explanation


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