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    Not to long ago a good friend of mine went into hospital for a couple of days (so he thought) and never went home!

    He was old school & never went digital.

    When he knew he was not going home (he died a few days later) he asked me to cleanse his gaff of porn & drugs and shit.

    All that was on his mind is what his family would think of him when he was gone!

    My question to you is would you care?

    Would you ask a friend to do the same?

    Has it even crossed your mind even?

    It has been on my mind since he died & I think I would want someone to the the same for me. I have never cared what anyone thought of me but somehow this bothers me!

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    Quote Originally Posted by irishdeltaforce View Post
    Not to long ago a good friend of mine went into hospital for a couple of days (so he thought) and never went home!

    He was old school & never went digital.

    When he knew he was not going home (he died a few days later) he asked me to cleanse his gaff of porn & drugs and shit.

    All that was on his mind is what his family would think of him when he was gone!

    My question to you is would you care?

    Would you ask a friend to do the same?

    Has it even crossed your mind even?

    It has been on my mind since he died & I think I would want someone to the the same for me. I have never cared what anyone thought of me but somehow this bothers me!
    Do you want people to think you are some sort of weirdo that didn't have a porn collection?

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    Quote Originally Posted by ManHold View Post
    Do you want people to think you are some sort of weirdo that didn't have a porn collection?
    You might not want family to know what you were into................or...............that you were unfaithful..............when they were singing your praises at the funeral...........and...........the sobbing widow.................who probably deserved it anyway...............had no interest in sex

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    Quote Originally Posted by irishdeltaforce View Post
    Not to long ago a good friend of mine went into hospital for a couple of days (so he thought) and never went home!

    He was old school & never went digital.

    When he knew he was not going home (he died a few days later) he asked me to cleanse his gaff of porn & drugs and shit.

    All that was on his mind is what his family would think of him when he was gone!

    My question to you is would you care?

    Would you ask a friend to do the same?

    Has it even crossed your mind even?

    It has been on my mind since he died & I think I would want someone to the the same for me. I have never cared what anyone thought of me but somehow this bothers me!
    I'd definitely need someone to clear my internet search history.

    Got rid of all my mags and DVDs a while ago.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ManHold View Post
    Do you want people to think you are some sort of weirdo that didn't have a porn collection?
    There is more to it then that. His partner who he did no live with did not know that he visited escorts (punting phone etc). And photos of woman he was seeing on the side he did not want her to see, or hurt her.

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    Quote Originally Posted by irishdeltaforce View Post
    Not to long ago a good friend of mine went into hospital for a couple of days (so he thought) and never went home!

    He was old school & never went digital.

    When he knew he was not going home (he died a few days later) he asked me to cleanse his gaff of porn & drugs and shit.

    All that was on his mind is what his family would think of him when he was gone!

    My question to you is would you care?

    Would you ask a friend to do the same?

    Has it even crossed your mind even?

    It has been on my mind since he died & I think I would want someone to the the same for me. I have never cared what anyone thought of me but somehow this bothers me!
    Ya that would be my biggest fear that I get killed.
    If I was dying like your friend I,d get my good friends to do a bit of house clearing for er too.
    I don,t think it would be fair on my parents to find impersonal stuff belonging to me after my death
    as I think it would be totally unfair on them


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    Quote Originally Posted by willie wacker View Post
    Ya that would be my biggest fear that I get killed.
    If I was dying like your friend I,d get my good friends to do a bit of house clearing for er too.
    I don,t think it would be fair on my parents to find impersonal stuff belonging to me after my death
    as I think it would be totally unfair on them
    I would be mortified with some of the stuff I have in me gaff! I would not like that to be the last thing on my mind.

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    Quote Originally Posted by irishdeltaforce View Post
    I would be mortified with some of the stuff I have in me gaff! I would not like that to be the last thing on my mind.
    Unless you believe in heaven,,so what????????????????

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    Quote Originally Posted by bollocks View Post
    Unless you believe in heaven,,so what????????????????
    I think it's a very shocking thing when you know you are going to die. I mean I'm sure it is at any age, but early forty's!!

    Your going to clean the gaff maybe do a bit of long over due hoovering and then you are told after a few days you will be dead.

    Your thinking of all those mundane things & then you have the realization that you life is over & you will never go home...........

    My mate could not give a rats ass about anyone or anything.

    But his mind focused on what his girlfriend and mum would think of him when he was gone.

    Maybe it was the cancer I don't know!
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    Quote Originally Posted by irishdeltaforce View Post
    There is more to it then that. His partner who he did no live with did not know that he visited escorts (punting phone etc). And photos of woman he was seeing on the side he did not want her to see, or hurt her.
    obviously you were good mates, so sorry for your loss... that said, it sounds like your mate was a bit of a randy fecker (says him on an escort site)

    actually i dont think i have any mags, etc. or even anything saved on a hard drive. who wants to watched the same porn movie twice these days?

    and if someone is going to the trouble of checking my internet history, well i hope they enjoy.

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