Can you guys help me please? This is my first post. I'm brand new to the site. I have been thinking about meeting a girl here for a long time as I lack a bit of self esteem and I'm really shy. I thought meeting a few girls here would help me. My problem is I can't bring myself to call a girl. My hands get all sweaty and my breathing heavy as I'm about to dial the number and then I just chicken out. I really need some help with this. Any of you guys been through this before or maybe someone has some suggestions. I'm cracking up. I know it sounds stupid but any help would be appreciated.