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Its more common than you think, certainly happened to me a few times. Its not always frustrating though, and certainly not the be all and end all.
Same as the ladies, you can have a good time without cuming
The ladies have seen it all anyway, guys who cant get it up at all, or lose their erection (yep happened to me that one I don't mind admitting, mid fuck as well)
A lot is to do with the lady in question, the confidence she can give you and how makes you feel at ease.
Never happened with Holly, but happened with Rubina once, but she got me there in a different way, it was important to her