Dirty old men

[tipp oldie]

As a dirty old man (as you put it) I always tell the girls my age when I make a booking. I have not been refused yet. I respect ladies of all ages.

[nonpareil]

If escorts turned away guys in their forties or over they would probably lose 2/3s or more of their clientale. If they turn away someone in their 40s, it'll be for reasons other than age.Mid forties is relatively young and most will have seen clients a good bit older than this.
An escort is not looking for some sort of life partner in a client.As has been stated here many times , an escort will appreciate a client who is clean, polite, not overly rough or aggressive, who knows how to conduct themselves ; doesn't haggle or out stay their welcome, with whom they can feel reasonably safe.
A bigger factor than age is the individual. There can be pleasant older or younger guys and unpleasant older and younger guys.
Incidentally, both on here and in the flesh , I have heard escorts say that they are not overly keen on clients in the 18 to 23/25 age bracket (these escorts often in their mid20s themselves).Never directly asked the reasons why...possibly too rough, inexperienced, too nervous, too driven by what they've seen in porn
And if the client is not overly nervous and can exchange a few words of conversation , it may make it a better meeting for both parties (escort & client).

[nonpareil]

If Im reading between the lines right, hes saying jibberjaber's a fuckin arsehole

You may be reading it wrong
He may well be saying he loves Jiberjabber' s fucking arsehole.
Or rearrange word order above if you feel it to be more appropriate .
Who are we to judge?

[Amy Alison]

An escort would generally not regard it as pervy, she is hardly the innocent teen Mature men tend to have more cash anyway, so it's quite a practical thing to do.

But people in the client's life, wife especially, would see it as really bad if she ever finds out. Even if she forgives the indiscretion, she is convinced you are border line pedophile

[JAMESCORK]

From what I 'hear' most customers tend to be 40plus age group.
Most escorts are 20 to 30 and I know there are more mature ones too.
But does a 40 to 50 year old man seeing a 20 to 25 year old girl not seem pervy.
Outside of this environment it would not seem natural but here it seems ok and the reason
Being the girls advertise etc and is a free choice. Most seem to be here funding college or family back home or other reasons
To get some good money . Don't get me wrong have seen some lovely ladies her over the years but is it natural
For a50 year old to be with a 25 yr old? For all she says ....

No, its not natural. A pervert is a person whose sexual behavior is regarded as abnormal and unacceptable. Is visiting escorts acceptable?. Is visiting escorts normal?

Really depends who you ask I suppose, but the fact remains that for most civvy street peeps it is not, therefore I am a pervert.

If this was civvy street and I was hanging out in niteclubs and bars trying to score with a 20 year old then I am much more of a pervert than a paying client looking for sex from a willing young escort. I have been in public many times with escorts half my age having fun and flirting like bejaysus... Im sure many onlookers may have thought "pervert"... I really don't care, cos my date is way hotter than you or yours...

I don't mind being a perv.... I actually like it...

[nonpareil]

If you went back 80 or 90 years or more , women were often married to males 15 or 20 years their senior.
And marriage for "love" would have been a lot less common too.
It was more often a monetary affair or an arrangement of convenience back then.

[nonpareil]

A perv is someone who obsesses too much about people in bushes outside windows.

A weed is a plant in the wrong place, so they say.

[JAMESCORK]

A perv is someone who obsesses too much about people in bushes outside windows.

A weed is a plant in the wrong place, so they say.

You insinuating I'm a weed bud...

[tipp oldie]

Sadly we don't feel like teenagers on the outside!

You seem like a nice lady. It's a pity we can never meet because of your age restrictions.

[nonpareil]

You insinuating I'm a weed bud...

No , I'm having a jibe at my good friend Tumbleweed.

He seems to be gone quiet....hardly banned?