Escort World - The truth, my opinion and suicide

[anitasizzle]

Hello Anita....

I wasn’t pointing it at you at all Anita, really hope you don’t think that. I only have peoples written word to go on but I have never seen bitterness in your posts. You thankfully like a few others speak your mind no matter what and I have seen sadly that when a woman comes on here and just does that she gets labeled with being bitter and it’s the oldest trick in the book that is thrown around after greedy or what not.

Please don’t think I was saying that, nothing could have been further from my mind. Some see straight talking as being bitter or more likely they use it as a weapon to silence her as the word bitter being put on an Escort is like a frost on a leaf and is done only to silence.

I do know you were a madame btw and always wanted to ask something but would not wish to intrude.

Ps

This is neither hear nor there but 4 years seems to be the average as 4 have told me that is how long roughly they have worked in this profession.

Best regards Anita and I was'nt pointing at you.

Thanks for your reply, and confirmation on what I long suspected some posters were doing

It doesn' work on me, though. I sat through a semester of college-level psychology101 when I was 4 1/2 years old (people's memories can stetch as far back as when they were the age of 4) and sat through it again, and passed with a over 70%(Irish equivalent) grade, in my 20's. I'm often amazed at how dumb some of the posters here think working-girls are-we're money-motivated, not sex-motivated-big difference

[godfather]

Have you got one more thing to tell punters?

GF

[carlos marvado]

There is one thing I am curious about in this whole story.

Gemma states that Godfather hired a P.I. to follow her around to make sure that she was safe and she somehow copt this fact. Normally I would imagine that if I man engaged a P.I. to follow a woman, that woman would probably be his wife for obvious reasons. The same also happens the other way around of course. But to hire a P.I. to follow an escort around?
Good God Godfather, did you actually tell the P.I. what Gemma was up to and why you wanted her followed, or did you spin him some other story and hope he would'nt find out the truth about her.

The whole thing seems extremely indiscreet to me and Godfather, you were taking something of an unnecessary risk.

[bigpaws]

So bigpaws is “happy” to see a Woman hit “rock Bottom” Jesus what a piece of work and no mistake.

She’s spelling it and he still does not respect her enough to let her say what she wants to say without sticking the boot in.

One thing is clear about Gemma and that she will never ever see rock bottom and how dare anyone suggest otherwise.

Hitting rock bottom in this industry is something quite different then where Gemma is at as is self evidently the case from the most honest post ever put up here.

She has seen the various warning signs and taken action to avoid and has said what no one here dares to say about what can lie waiting. Her very best days are in front of her and I wish her well.

This post and your other posts on this thread (and this site in general) show how completely out of touch you are with the reality of escort/punter life .............. you know absolutely nothing about Gemma or her life and you never will, I know everything.

The fact is you are ignorant and if I didn't respect Gemma's privacy I could demonstrate just how pig-ignorant you really are ..................... you would do better to leave Gemma and the rest of the escorts here alone instead of trying to force your warped version of "friendship" on them.
How many escorts need to complain about your behaviour before you realise that it is in fact you that is the real problem in your life???

Paws

[anitasizzle]

I have spoken to Dita on the phone. Gemma did tell her of all of the risks involved in this business before Dita started. By observation Dita herself is calming down on her business. It is escorts like yourself that are happy that Gemma and Dita are resigning because they are the busiest escorts around. This is obvious by their profiles and lack of answering both of their phones. Jealousy is a horrid thing.GF

I don't have anything against either of one of these two-I used a thread started by Dita as an example of the something I was trying to get aross.

I don't rate Irish women, alot of foreign people don't I mean lets be honest, when was the last time a foreigner showed interest in an Irish girl, and not her passport?

If I had a son and he brought home an Irish girl, I cut his dick off-'what the fuck you bringing 'that' to the house for?' Maybe that's why I don't like Irish girls, they don't incite envy, just pity

[Punter John]

Where to start??:

I started escorting because of the money. It seemed like a good idea at the time and an easy way of making money doing something I liked. My first client was nice and the service was fun so I went ahead and done up my rather bad profile that I have never up dated. Making €**** a day working times that suited me tuned out to be very addictive especially since it is so easy. I also have a receptionist to take calls which means I can have clients in 10 mins after the last (enough time to shower etc.) which cuts my working time in half. I do not know how busy escorts are able to work without a receptionist. I would be lost without mine. She is brilliant and keeps me organised because I am a unprofessional escort when it comes to time etc. However as time went on I started to notice my personality changing. I was not as bubbly as I normally was before I started working. I also did not care about people close to me the way I should have. If I did decide to continue escorting I would end up like many of the other escorts on this site. That is cold, heartless, bitter, depressed or on drugs or excessive amounts of alcohol. My whole life would be one big act full of lies. My normal life was also starting to be effected. The escort world was becoming my normal life. If I was foreign and did not have a normal life I could escort no problem.

As for my retirement, I was not retiring for the right reason. I was not retiring for me and I was not ready to retire.

Godfather:

You were correct about certain things you have said and commented on and believe me. I AM THE REAL GEMMA. Does the word "Joker" sound familiar? You now know i is really me. You were a client that I saw too often when I knew you were developing feelings for me. I should have refused to see you sooner then I did. You did not need to hire a PI to follow me to make sure I was safe. I have security for that. My personal life was also none of your business. I did not get involved in your personal life even after you hired someone to follow me and were giving out personal information about me. I do know the name of your huge company and could of easily tracked you down (using the net ironically) but decided not to. I feel sorry for your wife and do hope you can save your marriage.

Regular Clients:

Sorry I have not been answering your calls or texts for the past few weeks. I have been very busy lately. I do recommend and have already recommended to some of you become a regular of Irish Fiona because all of you liked me for my personality. Fiona is just as bubbly and friendly as me.

Clients:

No matter how much you tell yourself that what you are doing is ok and not cheating it is. Would you like your wife/partner/girlfriend going to see a male escort? I do not think so. Also for the clients that ask escorts to go on dates with them, escort and client relationships do not work and this is not only my opinion. New clients and first timers DO NOT START SEEING ESCORTS it is very addictive and it is just like an expensive wank no matter what escort you are with.

Escorts:

Thank you to all of the escorts that I was friends with. I really appreciate your friendships and advice. Thank you also to all the jealous, bitter, sly, two faced snakes. When I look at you I think I never want to end up like them. I am sorry to all the escorts I am friends with but I will be cutting full communication with the escort world.
Stay safe and trust no one, not even other escorts. Everyone is only out or themselves which I am sure you have all relised. Some are just more bitchy and bitter then others.

Regular people on this site:

Honestly you all need tot urn of your computers and get a life. I admit I used to spend a lot of time on this site and no that I do not be on as much I relise that there are better things to be doing then sitting on a computer. When I think of EI I think of middle aged men sitting on their computer with one eye on the computer and the other on the tv watching and waiting for something new to be said. Spend time with your family, go on a walk or get a hobby and not spend life seeing what is being said on this site.

Control:

This is for everyone that knows me and have talked to me. The guys I am talking about will know what I mean when I say "you were all right and I was wrong". Thank you for you honest opinions you all gave me even though I did not thank you all at the time.

Final Word:

To all new escorts NEVER start escorting unless you know 100% what you are getting yourself involved in. You are getting involved in a world full of drink, drugs and multiple sex partners that you will not always be attracted to. It is impossible to have a normal relationship no mater how hard you try to seperate the two worlds and you will also find your normal life suffering greatly. All of this takes a toll on your mental and physical health. Your health is more important then a couple of thousand a week.

I do still like escorting but I have seen a total different side to it which would get to me if I was working as an escort full time. I regret everything I have done and said since I started escorting. The money was not worth it and becoming slightly harder and hurting people that cared about me was not worth it. I am only getting the amount of clients I do get because I provide the service they want and because I am Irish. I am good at escorting because I only work when I was in the mood.

I am genuinely sorry to everyone I have hurt, lied to, deceived and betrayed. I have honestly learned my lesson and if I could turn back time I would.

I know people reading this will think I have lost the plot but I have not. When my profile goes down after my signature tour dates I will be gone. I know everyone is probably saying here we go again but this time I am ready to retire and doing it for the correct reason's. I do also know that this post will be my career suicide. It is the truth however and I finally have the balls to say it instead of sugar coating everything.

I do not care about what anyone in the escort world thinks of me or what anyone has to say about me. I am who I am hate it or love it I do not care.

NEW YEAR, NEW START, NEW LIFE.

I WILL NOT BE POSTING AGAIN UNLESS REQUIRED.

Gemma

attention whore

[Patricia]

attention whore

When I saw you were back... I was just waiting for you to say something offensive... Seems I didn't have to wait long

[Quarterpoundher]

This post and your other posts on this thread (and this site in general) show how completely out of touch you are with the reality of escort/punter life .............. you know absolutely nothing about Gemma or her life and you never will, I know everything.

The fact is you are ignorant and if I didn't respect Gemma's privacy I could demonstrate just how pig-ignorant you really are ..................... you would do better to leave Gemma and the rest of the escorts here alone instead of trying to force your warped version of "friendship" on them.
How many escorts need to complain about your behaviour before you realise that it is in fact you that is the real problem in your life???

Paws

Small problem with your rather amateur hour "anal" litical take there and that is I was in contact with Gemma and she has not said I did what you are claiming as I was as polite to her as I am to all.

This place is plenty big enough for you to not have to follow me around with you're leaky pale of piss to sling on anyone who disagrees with you. I said I will only engage with you in mannerly debate. The joyous day that you emerge from the mists of malice that surround you I can be found on the broad uplands of the windmills of the mind. A New year and a new dawn for the world today and I am not wasting a second on rubbish and am taking Gemma's pertinent advise. I suggest you pay heed to her also.

As I said, Escorts get labeled as bitter to badger them into silence

Clients get labeled as either obsessive or abusive

You do both to all

I am immune as those I converse with know I have treated them with the respect that is all Womens right.

[Quarterpoundher]

Thanks for your reply, and confirmation on what I long suspected some posters were doing

It doesn' work on me, though. I sat through a semester of college-level psychology101 when I was 4 1/2 years old (people's memories can stetch as far back as when they were the age of 4) and sat through it again, and passed with a over 70%(Irish equivalent) grade, in my 20's. I'm often amazed at how dumb some of the posters here think working-girls are-we're money-motivated, not sex-motivated-big difference

I hear ya Anita, attended a similar school myself and know what makes people tick and other people thick if you follow me. No such thing as a dumb escort as any I spoke to where all highly capable people. I mean look at how many have second or third languages. I’m struggling with just English.

It makes perfect sense to exploit an inexhaustible resource and sex is just that, inexhaustible in men and a resource for women such as yourself. Three professions never go hungry regardless of boom or bust.

Hairdressers
Undertakers
And Escort

Hair will grow
People will die
Men get horny

So the smart person will grab either a scissors, shovel or dick

[Stewie]

When they eagerly antcipated being exploited, others warned them against, while others gleefully awaited exploiting them.
https://www.escort-ireland.com/board...-escort-2.html

So Dita was exploited

How do you know, seems to me that she is an intelligent woman that made an informed decision

She was not forced into entering the business or forced to stay in it.


So where is the exploitation

Do you feel you have been exploited ?