I Think more than anything what you wrote & your decision to give up escorting took a lot of courage, escorting for you really was a failure for u As a Person, u seem like u simply got addicted to the money there is no shame in failure You are made for better things!
Stick to your guns, I Wish u all the luck in the world........
I can clearly and unequivocally see Gemma , lots of luck.
I think you might have started a bit of an exodus from this realm from what you say about people pming you that they are leaving/stopping. I can set up a game reserve for them after you have given them a phyc evaluation and they can run free in their natural environment but I think one or two just need to put down as there best days are behind them but can't accept it which is the only reason they had a go at you and still are doing to others so they are proof positive that you are doing the right and smart thing.
Thanks for the common sense spoken and you are right.
When they eagerly antcipated being exploited, others warned them against, while others gleefully awaited exploiting them.
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Wow..fair pay to ya Gemma for giving us some insight into how difficult it can be for escorts, especially young escorts, its good to see your getting out of the game before ya become bitter and twisted like some of the older escorts on this forum, money aint the be all and end all at the end of the day and its far more important to be happy within yourself rather than find happyness in how much money is in your bank account, all the best with the retirement
Hello Anita
Don’t think being at this for a longtime automatically means someone will become bitter, its depends on the person. Someone only at this for a few years might get more bitter then someone doing it 20 years but it sure does seem to have a higher percentage of begrudgers at higher age ranges from slightly envious to the occasional wack job.
Probably to be expected when someone is judged and critiqued so much by complete strangers on reviews for the world to see and up against new blood all the time but self confidence is one advantage that comes with age and is sexy in itself. A person has to have real fortitude and self-belief not to get worn down.
I think once someone’s aware that this job is changing them they will be alright. Its brave of Gemma to be so honest with herself and more so to say it. I would find it very hard to turn away from something that has such earning potential. I admit I probably would do as most do and say I’ll quit next year but then new expense crop's up or something and before I knew it I’d be going NERRRRRRR at everyone.
I have a similar dilema whenever I get hit by a big expense as the river is mighty tempting and I look at it like a kind of ATM machine but to make 100 might cost me 2000 if I'm caught and I guess Escorting can be like that in it being hard to not go back.
I think doing it as a side line earner is the best way to go. Its then a break from the norm rather then being the norm. I’d imagine most escorts are bored rigid most days. I mean it must be as mundane after a few years as any job. Inherent dangers aside.
Or at least go at it hard for a year and get a headstart to fund something else career wise. Have noticed a few who say they are students so I guess the plan is not to have to struggle to pay for that. Don’t know how the full timers take the pace.
To deify times grasp is youth’s full right, to begrudge the young time not yet lived a selfish sight...
I"ve actually only been escorting for maybe 4 years, remember I use to run a brothel, so I don't really have much bitterness as a result from escorting because I've not really done it very long. And during my time as an escort, people would be surprised as much as I am that the bitterness is usually not me being bitter towards younger, prettier and whiter escorts, but the other way around, behind closed doors'I'm too normal for them. Thruth be told, most of the escorts who advertise or post on this board would FUCK ME UP quicker than I could ever think about doing to them, actually it wouldn't even cross my mind
So, when you, and posters like you point that bitterness finger-make sure it not at me becuase there really are wolves in sheep clothing amongst usDON'T BE DUMB
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Hello Anita....
I wasn’t pointing it at you at all Anita, really hope you don’t think that. I only have peoples written word to go on but I have never seen bitterness in your posts. You thankfully like a few others speak your mind no matter what and I have seen sadly that when a woman comes on here and just does that she gets labeled with being bitter and it’s the oldest trick in the book that is thrown around after greedy or what not.
Please don’t think I was saying that, nothing could have been further from my mind. Some see straight talking as being bitter or more likely they use it as a weapon to silence her as the word bitter being put on an Escort is like a frost on a leaf and is done only to silence.
I do know you were a madame btw and always wanted to ask something but would not wish to intrude.
Ps
This is neither hear nor there but 4 years seems to be the average as 4 have told me that is how long roughly they have worked in this profession.
Best regards Anita and I was'nt pointing at you.
I have spoken to Dita on the phone. Gemma did tell her of all of the risks involved in this business before Dita started. By observation Dita herself is calming down on her business. It is escorts like yourself that are happy that Gemma and Dita are resigning because they are the busiest escorts around. This is obvious by their profiles and lack of answering both of their phones. Jealousy is a horrid thing.
GF