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    What's the big deal with this? I've met so many people from each world who have a problem with the other two. Now seems to me, they are all about pleasure and getting a thrill of some sort, so why can't people just accept them for what they are?

    The funny thing is that there is a cross over with all three and yet it's like a rule that you can't talk about the other while in each circle or risk getting slated, yet I've met friends from the BDSM world in swinging clubs and Sex Workers in Swinging clubs and everyone having a bloody good time.

    Don't we get enough stigma and people looking up their noses without people doing it within?

    So... Sure to be a pro-Domme involves discipline and you can't just pick up a paddle and there you go, but there is nothing to say that you can't learn a few tricks of the trade and apply them to our pleasure? Equally if a pro-Domme fancies using her sub like a toy for her own sexual pleasure, then go for it girl! That's what he's there for to be used and abused.

    Isn't it time we accepted that we're all about the pleasure, be that paid for, free or through deviant means and respect each other as humans, who are not one dimensional and are all capable of thinking and growing and we all have something to offer through our experiences.

    The wonderful thing about being human is that we're all different and this world of pleasure is a honey pot of experience, skills and excitement. Now just find your pleasure and stop judging others for their pleasure x

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    Yeah Sex is fun and the more the merrier....and the more variety the better too! x

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    The whole lot of them deserve a good spanking.

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    Quote Originally Posted by rosieotoole69 View Post
    Yeah Sex is fun and the more the merrier....and the more variety the better too! x
    After doing one of those daft online tests recently on BDSM put up on here, I think what I have discovered is that I am an 'explorer' and variety is up my street. I don't like to be hemmed in to one thing and enjoy the diversity of being able to dabble in and out and new experiences. So I'm with you on that xxx Apparently I'm 70+% experimental like a mad scientist!!! hehe

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    I think you're absolutely bang on the money CurvaceousKate & I can see where this has come from (ie my previous thread in Fetish forum). My motto (as for many on the BDSM scene) is 'safe, sane & consensual' - as long as people know what they're doing & play safe - in whichever area they choose - then everyone's a winner. The only issue I have is with 'unsafe' play or when people pretend to know what they're doing & put others at risk. I don't care whether someone is an escort, a swinger or a bdsm-er - I've run enough events/clubs over the last 10 years or so to have seen my fair share of it all - my primary concern is safety.
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    Quote Originally Posted by CurvaceousKate View Post
    The wonderful thing about being human is that we're all different and this world of pleasure is a honey pot of experience, skills and excitement. Now just find your pleasure and stop judging others for their pleasure x
    Agreed. My own very limited experience on the site here suggests that it's easy to misconstrue fear (i.e. fear of being caught, found out or harmed) with disapproval. I got a bit of slating for my efforts to gather a group of like minded souls for an evening of abandon, but it's clear to me now that the reasons for that were more to do with discretion and safety than an actual dislike of the activity being proposed.

    It can be tough to tell the difference though

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    Quote Originally Posted by CurvaceousKate View Post
    After doing one of those daft online tests recently on BDSM put up on here, I think what I have discovered is that I am an 'explorer' and variety is up my street. I don't like to be hemmed in to one thing and enjoy the diversity of being able to dabble in and out and new experiences. So I'm with you on that xxx Apparently I'm 70+% experimental like a mad scientist!!! hehe
    I love to try it all, could you organise a gangbang for us horny guys kate, and please don't exclude the under 25's

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    The under 23s. ..ffs.

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    I agree,

    Most dominatrix is I've met have also been friendly in the other direction also

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    Quote Originally Posted by Walshie View Post
    I love to try it all, could you organise a gangbang for us horny guys kate, and please don't exclude the under 25's
    A gangbang you say? It's an intriguing idea ... now if only someone was working to arrange that very thing

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