Lack of Dommes or lack of clients?

[Lady Constance]

I was surprised to see how few actual Dominatrices there are on this site, as opposed to Escorts who offer 'domination services'. Is there a lack of genuine Dommes or is it more a case of a lack of clients? Maybe there are established Dommes who are busy enough that they don't need to advertise. Any thoughts?

Admittedly, there seems to be a lack of kink socially in the South East, which is disappointing.

[sgregg12]

I was surprised to see how few actual Dominatrices there are on this site, as opposed to Escorts who offer 'domination services'. Is there a lack of genuine Dommes or is it more a case of a lack of clients? Maybe there are established Dommes who are busy enough that they don't need to advertise. Any thoughts?

Admittedly, there seems to be a lack of kink socially in the South East, which is disappointing.

I wish there were some domes in Belfast !!

[nonpareil]

I wish there were some domes in Belfast !!

Churches have them there I presume.
Add an "m" ;-)
IrishMissAlisha and Fraulein Silke are there at the moment and Belfast Belle (not advertising ) who spends all her time there also has a domination profile.

[Lady Constance]

Who needs a domination profile when the men are putty in your hands….

There's a difference between being a hooker with a whip & a skilled practitioner - BDSM is an art form & imo the pleasure goes way beyond sex. I don't need to fuck a guys body, I fuck his mind

[nitram]

There's a difference between being a hooker with a whip & a skilled practitioner

Your in our country now and here a Hooker is a type of Sailing Ship and it used to dominate the waves off the west coast and never needed a whip

[Lady Constance]

Your in our country now and here a Hooker is a type of Sailing Ship and it used to dominate the waves off the west coast and never needed a whip

[Curvaceous Kate]

There's a difference between being a hooker with a whip & a skilled practitioner - BDSM is an art form & imo the pleasure goes way beyond sex. I don't need to fuck a guys body, I fuck his mind

It is possible to be able to do both. (Not at the same time) and I'm sorry if I'm being easily offended, but it sounds like you have a lack of respect for 'hookers' in your statement there.

Fucking with a guys mind is not difficult. Wives do it every day

[Lady Constance]

It is possible to be able to do both. (Not at the same time) and I'm sorry if I'm being easily offended, but it sounds like you have a lack of respect for 'hookers' in your statement there.

Fucking with a guys mind is not difficult. Wives do it every day

Of course it's possible to do both & I don't believe I suggested otherwise. I was simply observing that there seem to be very few who exclusively dominate and wondered why that is, because it's quite different to the UK.

I have no issue with escorts - I know quite a few personally as friends and they no more belittle my skills than I belittle theirs. My point is, there is more to being a Domme than throwing a flogger or a paddle around and there are many activities that can be dangerous if not performed correctly. That said, I've met a fair few 'Dommes' in my time who would benefit from some tuition!

[Mistressscarlett]

There's a difference between being a hooker with a whip & a skilled practitioner - BDSM is an art form & imo the pleasure goes way beyond sex. I don't need to fuck a guys body, I fuck his mind

This is very true there is a big difference between the two
Its a much better experience mind fucking a man looking them in the eye while they are shaking with fear and anticipation wondering what Mistress is going to do next

I love this lifestyle 2 much

Nice to meet you Lady Constance u clearly understand the art of BDSM

[Mistressscarlett]

This is very true there is a big difference between the two
Its a much better experience mind fucking a man looking them in the eye while they are shaking with fear and anticipation wondering what Mistress is going to do next

I love this lifestyle 2 much

Nice to meet you Lady Constance u clearly understand the art of BDSM

But in saying that im sure there are many escorts who are very capable of conducting perfect Domination sessions but as a Mistress i dont have sex with my clients as in my personal experience and opinion it doesnt coinside with the power exchange

But just becoz i dont have have sex with my clients doesnt mean i dont enjoy fucking the ass off some with my nice strap on...

Each to there own tho some men just like to experiment with some kinky sex which is best to visit an escort for and if she can preform all the requirments then good times all round but for some other men the thoughts of meeting a Dominatrix can be a bit scary at first so they either take the plunge and visit a Mistress or visit an escort to try some new things (we are portrayed to be quite scary to some remember and can be ) on the other hand men who know what they like and understand BDSM will take no chances and visit a Mistress becoz they know thats her speciality