Originally Posted by
CurvaceousKate
And there lies the problem and the answer to most relationships. If we communicated better and were more open with each other a lot of situations that occur would not happen or would have much better and honest outcomes. How many guys have you heard say that their wife doesn't give them a bj and then when you ask them if they ever asked their wife to do it, they've said, 'hell no, she's really religious, I couldn't ask her, she would kill me!'. Well I've had that conversation and it puzzles me how someone can commit their whole life to someone and bring up a family with them and yet not feel comfortable with their bodies, desires and passions.
Okay, so she might say no, but she also might say yes and that applies to many other areas of sexual exploration. I think it is a shame that so many women are made to feel that sex is a bad thing and not to be enjoyed, but as a husband, can you not together get over that hurdle and teach each other how to get the best from your body?
This is coming from a woman who didn't have an orgasm until she was 31. So don't please think just because I'm a sex worker, I've always been sexually in tune with my body and open. I was classed as a 'prude' as a teenager by my friends and totally believed in love before sex. I wouldn't want to be that person again and I'm glad I saw the light.
Now I'm rambling lol