well I'm still arseing about on my search, rang another lady yesterday and another today, the lady today had A and Anal receiving on her profile as well as strap-on, I thought the A might mean she received but no she doesn't, she said I only give and I said great, I like that, you got a strap on then and she said no, not with me, sadly no one seems to want to give me a good rodgering, why not