Originally Posted by
CurvaceousKate
That would be skulling. I think some guys get this confused. There is no option for skulling.
I personally quite like the feel of a cock growing in my mouth, so I have no problem with it being soft to start, but not at the point where you've just had a climax and it's not going to wake up for a while, but more at the start of arousal.
Asking before a meeting doesn't really help, as Sandy said there are a number of factors involved in being able to do this and she can't know about those things before you have met. Even if you have met before it is still a difficult one to predict, as she probably won't remember how big you are, unless you meet very frequently.