Rachel I think you are getting wound up over nothing here. There is a saying 'You can't teach your Grandmother to suck eggs'. It's not about your Grandmother, my Grandmother or anyone elses for that matter. It was not a personal attack.
You're starting to sound as silly as he did now
You are free to report it if you want to, but I think you are going to be disappointed, as it was simply an explanation and yes I defended Lucy, as I would anyone if I saw someone attacking them for no good reason, kind of like what you're doing now?
Oh and not standing for name calling (anymore). Why is it every time you change your mind on something you expect everyone else to toe in line with you? If you don't stand for name calling, then I assume you will be not just annoyed at Lucy for what you 'think' she said, but also at the person she allegedly said it too? There was a fair bit of name calling going on from that direction.