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  1. Default So I had my first time yesterday

    Let me just start of with that it was not my first time having sex , just the first time paying for it.

    I recently just ended a four year relationship so I decided to try out one of the girls in Dublin for the first time.
    Was really nervous I did not know what to do or say when I got there.

    So anyways I arrive , Girl is stunning no doubt. She has very little english so it is hard to communicate. I am standing there blubbering like an idiot saying hi what do we do now . She says shower , fine I get in shower.

    Then when I am ready I walk into bedroom and she just looks at me smiling and it was really awkward. I didnt know what to say or do and it seemed like it was her first time to , all though from her reviews thats not true.

    We ended up having sex and it was great I guess but the experience has kind of put me off doing this again. It just seemed like she was more nervous then I was and I think I needed to be guided through the whole thing for my first time.

    Should I try again or am I doomed to that awkwardness every time lol

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    nerves are a killer give it time pick out a nice girl that suits your needs and that can communicate in English and you will have a excellent time.some very nice ladies out there

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    Quote Originally Posted by webspinner93 View Post
    Should I try again or am I doomed to that awkwardness every time lol
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    It sounds to me that between the language barrier and it bring your "first time" meeting an escort you two just didn't click!

    Why not try again but this time with a girl who has good English and lots of good reviews. Tell her you are new to this and I'm sure she will look after you and you will have a better experience.

    There are always going to be the situations where people just don't "click" - but I'm sure there are lots of girls on here who you will get on like a house on fire with
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    Try some with as many reviews as possible , that you like the look of, next time.Say at least 50!+, they should more than likely speak very good English and should be able to make you feel at ease.They will have seen all sorts of clients before.

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    Quote Originally Posted by nonpareil View Post
    Try some with as many reviews as possible , that you like the look of, next time.Say at least 50!+, they should more than likely speak very good English and should be able to make you feel at ease.They will have seen all sorts of clients before.
    Sound advice , I am sure I will try again , it was quite a thrill to say the least

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    Welcome to paradise.
    Sounds like you just need to choose the lady with much better English .
    You should consider one who is a regular poster here as you can also pm them prior to appointment and explain your a touch nervous and just need a little guidance .

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    Welcome Webspinner... yeah the old language barrier can be off putting even for some of the more experienced guys. As the lads said.. just try and pick someone with better English and you'll be grand.

    ... my bog accent causes all sorts of havoc... even for English speaking folk LOL )

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    As others have said, good communication. Pick an established escort with good english, tell her its your first time and ask her to show you the ropes. Must have done that half a dozen times myself
    I'm a child of the 60's. Born of free love.
    Paying for it ever since.

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    Quote Originally Posted by philipkntz View Post
    As others have said, good communication. Pick an established escort with good english, tell her its your first time and ask her to show you the ropes. Must have done that half a dozen times myself
    will do that thanks

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    Quote Originally Posted by webspinner93 View Post
    Let me just start of with that it was not my first time having sex , just the first time paying for it.

    I recently just ended a four year relationship so I decided to try out one of the girls in Dublin for the first time.
    Was really nervous I did not know what to do or say when I got there.

    So anyways I arrive , Girl is stunning no doubt. She has very little english so it is hard to communicate. I am standing there blubbering like an idiot saying hi what do we do now . She says shower , fine I get in shower.

    Then when I am ready I walk into bedroom and she just looks at me smiling and it was really awkward. I didnt know what to say or do and it seemed like it was her first time to , all though from her reviews thats not true.

    We ended up having sex and it was great I guess but the experience has kind of put me off doing this again. It just seemed like she was more nervous then I was and I think I needed to be guided through the whole thing for my first time.

    Should I try again or am I doomed to that awkwardness every time lol
    Good man yourself, Did you make her cum?, that is the best feeling in the world and them genuinely saying when leaving I'd love to see you again

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