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    Sometimes I would like to revisit an escort but something holds me back?

    Is it my lack of social skills?
    Is it a fear that l was a pain in the ass on the first visit?
    Is it that I do want to get friendly with an escort?
    Is it that I'd be afraid the second appointment would not be as good as the first?


    I don't know - can't think straight!
    Seek and you shall find!

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    Quote Originally Posted by UB40 View Post
    Sometimes I would like to revisit an escort but something holds me back?

    Is it my lack of social skills?
    Is it a fear that l was a pain in the ass on the first visit?
    Is it that I do want to get friendly with an escort?
    Is it that I'd be afraid the second appointment would not be as good as the first?


    I don't know - can't think straight!
    I can understand this. Must be difficult to see a girl very regularly without wanting to enhance the click connection.

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    Quote Originally Posted by UB40 View Post
    Sometimes I would like to revisit an escort but something holds me back?

    Is it my lack of social skills?
    Is it a fear that l was a pain in the ass on the first visit?
    Is it that I do want to get friendly with an escort?
    Is it that I'd be afraid the second appointment would not be as good as the first?


    I don't know - can't think straight!
    My social skills are terrible i need to change ha

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    If you find a girl you really enjoy visiting why would you let this sort of stuff get in the way of your enjoyment. I have visited the same girl over a dozen times and for me it just keeps getting better ( I certainly don't plan on stopping the visits any time soon). I think it's because I am more comfortable in her company than I would be visiting a new girl for the first time.

    Don't overthink it, if you enjoyed yourself visit her again.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Klittyliker View Post
    If you find a girl you really enjoy visiting why would you let this sort of stuff get in the way of your enjoyment. I have visited the same girl over a dozen times and for me it just keeps getting better ( I certainly don't plan on stopping the visits any time soon). I think it's because I am more comfortable in her company than I would be visiting a new girl for the first time.

    Don't overthink it, if you enjoyed yourself visit her again.
    Ok, good on you. I think I would have to feel that there was a real click before I could see someone 12 times.

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    There are escorts I have visited over a dozen times.
    Most escorts are very professional and know where the boundaries are.
    It has advantages. We both know each other well, for example, and know what to expect when we meet.

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    Quote Originally Posted by The dirt bird View Post
    Serious question: have you ever talked about it to the escort ? 12 is a lot of visits when does it stop being business and start being a relationship of some description ? You guys have to be good friends at this stage. I think it's great to be honest once the lines don't get blurred.
    We have actually talked about it. It will be the first anniversary of our first meeting soon which she reminded me of recently.

    It will of course always be business but we have managed to become friends after all this time. A friendship I really do value.

    You're right about being honest though, I think that we both have a lot of respect for each other and understand the nature of our relationship which helps keep things real.
    Last edited by Klittyliker; 28-05-15 at 22:51.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Klittyliker View Post
    we have managed to become friends after all this time.
    Not until you introduce this escort to your family or other friends will she truly become a friend. Until then, she will remain your dirty little secret, your guilty pleasure

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    Quote Originally Posted by EIFII View Post
    Not until you introduce this escort to your family or other friends will she truly become a friend. Until then, she will remain your dirty little secret, your guilty pleasure
    I think some people can get confused and think someone's paid affection is genuine.
    Most I think understand it's paid for.

    But this doesn't mean people can't like one another, or indeed be friends.
    In most cases, I'd suggest escorts are friendly, not friends.

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    Quote Originally Posted by EIFII View Post
    Not until you introduce this escort to your family or other friends will she truly become a friend. Until then, she will remain your dirty little secret, your guilty pleasure
    Only the friends I had from school have met my family, unless there happened to be a wedding or something all were invited to. Even some of my friends have not met the rest of my friends. Your work friends will often not meet the friends you have from School for example. I have friends here in Ireland that have not met anyone else that I know out of the circle that I met them in.

    My best friend from School I've known since I was 13 and she hasn't met a lot of my other friends and visa versa. Some of them wouldn't get on at all.

    I guess with the circumstances of having met in this way you do have to be careful, as you don't want anyone getting hurt or making accusations, so friendships do need to be contained to a certain degree, in some cases more than others.

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