Refund for a no show..?

[SmallHorn]

Ah right, so that's the best you've got, disappointing to say the least. Poor effort small, must try harder

Wasn't arsed to be fair

[Curvaceous Kate]

You find her place (eventually), you don't know what to expect when the door opens, you act like the normal well adjusted adult you have turned out to be, you're shown no appreciation or affection dispite being a half decent looking fella, you're shown into a small bedroom with lights on too bright and no dimmer.
You give her the cash.
She makes no hesitation in derobing before you without asking your name or how are you? She seems pleasant enough but not enthusiastic. The body on her is not all you were made to believe and now you realize the photos were misleading.
So here starts the foreplay that does not include kissing or owo as stated. You reckon a bit of this would help the pork sword stand to attention but the gentleman in you lets it go. "Sure if she's not into it I can't force her".
For some reason or other it suits her just fine to slip on the rubber dispite only me being half hard.
So after what seemed like only 10 minutes of her self styled make believe foreplay she wants it over with.
"It happens, you need to relax" she says.
So where is the dignity for me in all that? She did nothing to earn my appreciation or cash, and not even a thanks from her on my way out the door. Were all those good reviews lies?
So I ask "If service was not delivered is even a 50 per cent refund unreasonable?"

Did you ask her for a refund or are you expecting her to know that you are dissatisfied and offer it first? If people never say anything, she will assume that they are happy with the service and this is further reinforced by the good reviews.

[robbie9]

i think a lot of escorts don't enjoy their job & the ones who offer a bad service don't last , just be extra careful next time.

[bootboy]

You find her place (eventually), you don't know what to expect when the door opens, you act like the normal well adjusted adult you have turned out to be, you're shown no appreciation or affection dispite being a half decent looking fella, you're shown into a small bedroom with lights on too bright and no dimmer.
You give her the cash.
She makes no hesitation in derobing before you without asking your name or how are you? She seems pleasant enough but not enthusiastic. The body on her is not all you were made to believe and now you realize the photos were misleading.
So here starts the foreplay that does not include kissing or owo as stated. You reckon a bit of this would help the pork sword stand to attention but the gentleman in you lets it go. "Sure if she's not into it I can't force her".
For some reason or other it suits her just fine to slip on the rubber dispite only me being half hard.
So after what seemed like only 10 minutes of her self styled make believe foreplay she wants it over with.
"It happens, you need to relax" she says.
So where is the dignity for me in all that? She did nothing to earn my appreciation or cash, and not even a thanks from her on my way out the door. Were all those good reviews lies?
So I ask "If service was not delivered is even a 50 per cent refund unreasonable?"

Sounds like a horrible experience. A feeling of being duped, taken as a mug. It has only happened to me on one occasion and that was abroad. It's demeaning asking for a refund, I wont do it.I'll take it on the chin. I am surprised at all the good reviews that you mention though .

[bootboy]

It may be difficult to stay but if you have paid for an hour or half an hour stay and be pleasant.
If you leave after 10 mins another payer can come in and lady gets very happy with all those 10 min appointments.
Obviously do not stay if things are so awkward the lady may feel threatened in some way.
Maybe the lady had an off day and deserves her good reviews who knows but does seem sad for both.

Problem is, you don't want to do that if you get the vibe that the escort wants it finished.

[Oh Kevin]

i think a lot of escorts don't enjoy their job & the ones who offer a bad service don't last , just be extra careful next time.

They know they are only here a short while and don't give a shit, they are there only to make a quick buck, a one kill type of think and don't expect or want to see you again as they just move on, they know theres any amount of mug punter out there

[borkeman]

Did you ask her for a refund or are you expecting her to know that you are dissatisfied and offer it first? If people never say anything, she will assume that they are happy with the service and this is further reinforced by the good reviews.

I did not ask for a refund. I'm under the impression that its not the done thing...
Being a nice, middleclass irish boy, I would not have asked
I would have been gobsmacked had she not known I was dissatisfied after that dismal encounter

[borkeman]

Because in the op you were complaining before you handed over the cash. Thats when you should have walked imo

I am complaining in retrospect. It was not an issue at the time because we had not started anything at that point and I wanted to make a go of it...
Thanks anyway to all for the info, did not espect to get much responce on this.

[JAMESCORK]

I did not ask for a refund. I'm under the impression that its not the done thing...
Being a nice, middleclass irish boy, I would not have asked
I would have been gobsmacked had she not known I was dissatisfied after that dismal encounter

If you stayed for full service then asking for a refund just because you deemed the session not to your standards or liking is not fair.

The decision to walk or ask for money back is probably best done in the first few minutes of your visit. I like slim girls with nice titays... its very difficult at times to make that decision when the girl is dressed in front of you with her hand out... Do I?, Don't I?... Even after many punts I still get it wrong and go ahead with the appointment ... I have never asked for money back tho... I'm weak that way..

[SmallHorn]

If you stayed for full service then asking for a refund just because you deemed the session not to your standards or liking is not fair.

The decision to walk or ask for money back is probably best done in the first few minutes of your visit. I like slim girls with nice titays... its very difficult at times to make that decision when the girl is dressed in front of you with her hand out... Do I?, Don't I?... Even after many punts I still get it wrong and go ahead with the appointment ... I have never asked for money back tho... I'm weak that way..

You still pay?