References from Escorts

[Curvaceous Kate]

I take it you mean the references that appear on your message board?

I have never asked for a reference, nor has anybody ever asked me for one. It is something I have never thought much about.
I have been given a few, and I have also given references to a few escorts. I should, of course,have given references to more escorts.

I didn't realise he meant that, do'h. They don't really matter unless you don't do reviews, then it can be useful.

[Curvaceous Kate]

Would you not check to see if a new client has any.I have been told by a few girls that this is part of their safety search.
I ask how does it make a difference if you can't see who left the reference but was told it makes them feel better about taking a booking.

Most of the clients I get call me by phone and many of them can't even tell me where they found me other than 'on the net'. If they want to pre book, then I will ask for a form of identity, that is to show they are a 'real' client and not a time waster. This generally can be via review system, being vouched for by another lady I know or a reference on here, but as yet, it has never been via a reference on here. I always check to see reviews, as they also give me some insight into the client as well.

[peterbarlow]

i think some girls are just safety concerned and if they see you don't have many reviews or you have never contacted them before they can ask for a name of a girl you may have seen just to confirm your ok to see and not a nutjob.

[Curvaceous Kate]

Although i have given and have gotten reference's on here don't get me wrong i am grateful for to the ladies who have given me one. I don't really see how they work.I don't mind that as a client i can't see who has given one for some else but i think it would be good if you girls could see them.

It's simple. Say I see you have met a lady that I know well, I can text her and ask her if you were a good client or not. Or, I will know her well enough to know that she would only leave a reference for a chap that she thought was good and a safe bet for anyone else thinking of seeing them. It's kind of an endorsement.

I forget to give them quite often and I always forget to look and see if someone has given me one. You don't necessarily need to have had a booking to leave a reference on here either, just to have met.

[Curvaceous Kate]

Would you not check to see if a new client has any.I have been told by a few girls that this is part of their safety search.
I ask how does it make a difference if you can't see who left the reference but was told it makes them feel better about taking a booking.

I keep forgetting. I tend to rely on reviews. A new client I tend to ask them to call me 30 mins before they want to meet and if I'm available I will take the booking. That system has worked quite well for me in the past, but I will likely not be using that system come June.

[Curvaceous Kate]

If you go onto my profile can you see which girls left a reference?This is what don't get because as far as I know you can't only I can. So if that is true I don't see the point in the reference's. I totally get you calling a girl that I have seen to check and I have absolutely no problem in that or evening asking me to provide you with a name of a girl so you can check.

Good point, you are right. As I said, I've never used that system and forget it exists.

[Hunter Green]

If following a booking, an escort doesn't give you a reference, is that a sort of black mark against you or a sign of indifference by the registered escort ?

References on your profile are just more "please let me know I'm more special than the other clients" bollox.
Make a phone call. Be polite cheerful and to the point and you'll never have any problems getting a booking, even if a lady asks for references a small conversation will easily change her mind.
But if all that references look at my reviews and messages crap helps you feel better about your online profile thats great. It's just not my bag.

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[themanofwar]

REFERENCES...easily manipulated as drop her an extra score and your sorted are you not

[Curvaceous Kate]

REFERENCES...easily manipulated as drop her an extra score and your sorted are you not

Most would not give a reference to a bad client, as it will come back and bite her on the bum. Surely if you had the booking and behaved you wouldn't have to pay for the reference?

[peterbarlow]

Most would not give a reference to a bad client, as it will come back and bite her on the bum. Surely if you had the booking and behaved you wouldn't have to pay for the reference?

Well said young lady, if you just respect any lady that you see on here then you will have no problem getting in any apartment door in the future.