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    Default References from Escorts

    If following a booking, an escort doesn't give you a reference, is that a sort of black mark against you or a sign of indifference by the registered escort ?

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    It means you were a failure in the bedroom and she's not too pushed about seeing you again

    or

    maybe she doesn't know the facility exists.
    Maybe she doesn't give this type of reference to anyone .
    Maybe she will but just hasn't got round to it.

    Or and this is my fav
    Maybe she wants to keep you to herself .

    Maybe summit else but don't be losing sleep over it.
    I have actually heard that some lads pm the lady to ask them. I shake my head at that one.

    Ps. A reference is always a nice little touch whether is giving or receiving .
    Last edited by zilch; 24-05-15 at 08:37.

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    Some Escorts don't get involved in any form of contact with other Escorts and just get on with their job. It doesn't matter how your booking went, they just won't do it. There are also some Escorts that fall out, so they won't contact the person given, as they would rather not contact them, so it's a little more complex than just assuming they didn't like you or gave you a black mark. Also, if the Escort is not working or visiting family etc, etc, she may not reply.

    I certainly wouldn't take it personally, it's just unfortunate if your nominated lady doesn't reply to the lady you wanted to see.

    I would also say in your case where you have reviews, it is actually worth passing on your EI contact and sending her a message here, so she can check them out, as 9 times out of 10 that would ensure the booking goes ahead. You would only need to do this if the reference didn't come through though, although I'm happy to accept a reviewer as a guarantee of a genuine booking being made, as long as they are not ratted.
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    Quote Originally Posted by zilch View Post
    It means you were a failure in the bedroom and she's not too pushed about seeing you again

    or

    maybe she doesn't know the facility exists.
    Maybe she doesn't give this type of reference to anyone .
    Maybe she will but just hasn't got round to it.

    Or and this is my fav
    Maybe she wants to keep you to herself .

    Maybe summit else but don't be losing sleep over it.
    I have actually heard that some lads pm the lady to ask them. I shake my head at that one.

    Ps. A reference is always a nice little touch whether is giving or receiving .
    That's obviously the position in my case so. Thanks for the explanation.

    And no, I haven't needed the sleeping tabs for this one !

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    Quote Originally Posted by CurvaceousKate View Post
    Some Escorts don't get involved in any form of contact with other Escorts and just get on with their job. It doesn't matter how your booking went, they just won't do it. There are also some Escorts that fall out, so they won't contact the person given, as they would rather not contact them, so it's a little more complex than just assuming they didn't like you or gave you a black mark. Also, if the Escort is not working or visiting family etc, etc, she may not reply.

    I certainly wouldn't take it personally, it's just unfortunate if your nominated lady doesn't reply to the lady you wanted to see.

    I would also say in your case where you have reviews, it is actually worth passing on your EI contact and sending her a message here, so she can check them out, as 9 times out of 10 that would ensure the booking goes ahead. You would only need to do this if the reference didn't come through though, although I'm happy to accept a reviewer as a guarantee of a genuine booking being made, as long as they are not ratted.
    I think I have only been asked for a reference only once over the years. Its a hurdle very easily gotten over. Some sensible communication would do the trick. Personally, I think the profile references are unnecessary.

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    When I started this some girls asked me for a reference as I did not leave reviews at the time- other than that some girls do give a reference here and there and I give references to girls I like
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    Don't think I've ever gave a reference as I didn't know how to do it at the time and only realised I had a reference when I was looking to do something on my profile.

    I don't think it's the be all and end all if a girl gives a reference or not.
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    I take it you mean the references that appear on your message board?

    I have never asked for a reference, nor has anybody ever asked me for one. It is something I have never thought much about.
    I have been given a few, and I have also given references to a few escorts. I should, of course,have given references to more escorts.
    Last edited by SteveB; 24-05-15 at 11:27.

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    Quote Originally Posted by SteveB View Post
    I take it you mean the refrences that appear on your message board?

    I have never asked for a reference, nor has anybody ever asked me for one. It is something I have never thought much about.
    I have been given a few, and I have also given references to a few escorts. I should, of course,have given references to more escorts.
    Quote Originally Posted by TonyStark View Post
    Don't think I've ever gave a reference as I didn't know how to do it at the time and only realised I had a reference when I was looking to do something on my profile.

    I don't think it's the be all and end all if a girl gives a reference or not.
    Just found out how to reply to multiple posts at the one time.
    Never knew what the "icon" in the lower right hand corner was for before now.
    References (giving and receiving:-) are nice but probably not overly important.
    Last edited by nonpareil; 24-05-15 at 11:30.

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    I think it just depends on the escort some give you a reference some don't but to fair I don't review as much now because just being a bit paranoid if my reviews go up i'm more noticeable but it doesn't mean anything but it is nice to get one

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