NI 1st june

[Curvaceous Kate]

Escorting is not Illegal, thats the bottom line

If that makes you feel better, you carry on telling yourself that

[BIGBAGDOM]

When it happened I asked ppl on EI for information on them, so I could give it to SWAI who wanted to help them. Where were you then with all your knowledge?

I'm sorry, I don't be on here too much and on a break at present but if I can help I will.
I really do feel sorry for these girls but there was a new judge appointed around this time and he presided over this particular case and was sending out a clear message from the start that it will not be tolerated, just unfortunate for these two young ladies.

[Curvaceous Kate]

I'm sorry, I don't be on here too much and on a break at present but if I can help I will.
I really do feel sorry for these girls but there was a new judge appointed around this time and he presided over this particular case and was sending out a clear message from the start that it will not be tolerated, just unfortunate for these 2 young ladies.

I think that is the problem though. Ireland are not going to be lenient on Escorts, any more than clients. We're both going to suffer from this new law and that is really my point. It's not right to make out that the Client is the only one who will suffer, especially when the Escort relies on the job for their bread and butter.

If you do know who they are, could you pm me please, as I can pass it on to SWAI. They may still be able to help.

[BIGBAGDOM]

I think that is the problem though. Ireland are not going to be lenient on Escorts, any more than clients. We're both going to suffer from this new law and that is really my point. It's not right to make out that the Client is the only one who will suffer, especially when the Escort relies on the job for their bread and butter.

If you do know who they are, could you pm me please, as I can pass it on to SWAI. They may still be able to help.

True but do believe that the Gardai in this case were acting on complaints received from the public and this would be an on-going occurrence and took action again, So discreet accommodation will be a must in the times ahead to protect both escorts and clients.
I can but I think they could soon be due for release if not out already.

[Curvaceous Kate]

Well, there is actually, a very simple one. Stop hooking & the threat disappears. The same way, I can make the threat of being arrested disappear by stopping visiting.

But you (not you personally, I mean all & any escorts that put forward this "woe is me" routine) won't do that, because of the financial rewards.

What you have outlined are some of the pitfalls associated with prsotitution, that is one of the reasons you can charge what you do.

I,m sorry, but i do find it hard to empathise.

Most people would not be in a position to stop their job just like that and when you consider that sex work is one of the few jobs you can do without a c.v. or qualifications, which is one of the plus points, it is not as simple as moving on to another job. Even if you are well qualified, you have a period of time you can not account for.

Those are not the reasons for the high charges, the high charges are due to the intimate nature of the job and to do that job well, there are only so many clients you can see in a day. For many it also has a short shelf life, as they don't want to make a career out of it, they just want to solve a problem. It also takes a lot of mental strength, skill and dedication to do well and sustain a good reputation.

Again, I find concern in your lack of empathy, but we are all individuals and see things from different perspectives. I can only give you mine.

[Stonie]

Ulster bus will be very busy over the next few weeks

[themanofwar]

They can't give them the location of where it happened, so no they can't.

you mean to tell me that if the escorts on here were beaten or robbed they wouldn't contact the police, they have just every right to and think they would, would hate for the bad person to go to another escort and do the same

[Curvaceous Kate]

you mean to tell me that if the escorts on here were beaten or robbed they wouldn't contact the police, they have just every right to and think they would, would hate for the bad person to go to another escort and do the same

Bearing in mind that from that point on the PSNI would know where they are working from and then could source their clients for fines and prosecution, do you think they are going to jeopardise their life line? If they have been robbed, then they need to try and earn that money back, not make their work dry up.

They could also end up losing the use of the apartment, as the landlord may be informed and then if they don't kick them out, they too could find themselves with a prison sentence.

[themanofwar]

Bearing in mind that from that point on the PSNI would know where they are working from and then could source their clients for fines and prosecution, do you think they are going to jeopardise their life line? If they have been robbed, then they need to try and earn that money back, not make their work dry up.

They could also end up losing the use of the apartment, as the landlord may be informed and then if they don't kick them out, they too could find themselves with a prison sentence.

so kate if a guy beat you up and robbed you( hope it never happens though) you mean you would just let him go and not report it.
Escorts are people too and got every right to do so and should, maybe i wrong but that what i think

[Curvaceous Kate]

when you can get 100 pounds for half hours work for something that you enjoy most of the time than why would you quit.
Ireland from what most escorts say is a fairly good place to work and the guys are caring and generous so yous are on top of the world. Problem is people are not half thankful for what they have

That is a very simplistic view, but I certainly don't plan on stopping as yet, as I haven't completed my goals yet. I think I would feel depressed if I didn't have goals and a deadline though, as I couldn't imagine myself doing this for decades. It's way too stressful.