NI 1st june

[Davidontour]

You are assuming that they know all the apartments that are well known and over used. Things change and you are not necessarily privi to that change. I've known of places I've booked before now that were discreet and as I said before, something has happened that you are not made aware of and all of a sudden it's not any more. It's not all about apartments that are well known, it's about people and their practices. You let one wrong person in and it can totally change things.

Hotels are not all safe either. Many hotels will kick girls out if they have any suspicions and some are bloody underhand about it too. Some of them have staff working outside in the hall way for most of the day, which doesn't work well for me, as I'm a day time worker.

Seriously for a guy with 2 reviews you seem to know all about how we work and what our risks are. I really should bow down to your knowledge having only 6 years experience and seriously I should be lucky to have met nice guys in Ireland? It's two way babe, I happen to be a bloody nice woman and they were also lucky to meet me. I may not be your 'type' but that is no reason to treat me like I should be grateful to have any clients.

Never a truer word....

[Genie in a Bottle]

I'm not looking down on anybody, you are the one who brought up £10 and made the assumption that is what I was earning before. The fact is that you were wrong, so I put you right.

Can you please stop telling me that I should be lucky, when I have literally had to leave my family (with my Sister with a life long illness), a niece I've only got to see 3 times since she was born and a Son that I'm missing seeing growing into a man. Everything comes with a price and I'm paying good for what I am earning, but you know what. I want to be solvent in the future and this is the way I am going to achieve it.

It's not my fault if other people can't/won't or don't want to achieve their goals in the same way as I am.

Who said I am making great money as well? You do like to make a lot of assumptions. Have I told you how much I earn?

hold it, that was a general observation on what most good jobs pay, it was not about you at all, I only started my business on January last and on €20 per hour ( there thats what i earn) and thats after 4 years in college but will increase as business grows hopefully. No ones blaming you but we all have to star somewhere and i'm just starting out in life but sometimes money takes over peoples life's and they cant see past this...

as for family we all lose out as have lost friend and family to suicide and cancer too but we can't change it.
but you are lucky that Ireland has been good to you are you not? and I bet you wouldn't leave Ireland would you?

[Genie in a Bottle]

You are assuming that they know all the apartments that are well known and over used. Things change and you are not necessarily privi to that change. I've known of places I've booked before now that were discreet and as I said before, something has happened that you are not made aware of and all of a sudden it's not any more. It's not all about apartments that are well known, it's about people and their practices. You let one wrong person in and it can totally change things.

Hotels are not all safe either. Many hotels will kick girls out if they have any suspicions and some are bloody underhand about it too. Some of them have staff working outside in the hall way for most of the day, which doesn't work well for me, as I'm a day time worker.

Seriously for a guy with 2 reviews you seem to know all about how we work and what our risks are. I really should bow down to your knowledge having only 6 years experience and seriously I should be lucky to have met nice guys in Ireland? It's two way babe, I happen to be a bloody nice woman and they were also lucky to meet me.

I may not be your 'type' but that is no reason to treat me like I should be grateful to have any clients.

there you go again making assumptions that just because i have 2 reviews that i know nothing, i've been seeing escorts for quite a while and long before i joined here to put those reviews up there and where did i say that you were not a nice woman, for i didn't,
I think we should leave it at that,

[Curvaceous Kate]

hold it, that was a general observation on what most good jobs pay, it was not about you at all, I only started my business on January last and on €20 per hour ( there thats what i earn) and thats after 4 years in college but will increase as business grows hopefully. No ones blaming you but we all have to star somewhere and i'm just starting out in life but sometimes money takes over peoples life's and they cant see past this...

as for family we all lose out as have lost friend and family to suicide and cancer too but we can't change it.
but you are lucky that Ireland has been good to you are you not? and I bet you wouldn't leave Ireland would you?

It might surprise you, but I also spent 4 years at Uni and a year at college prior to that as a mature student and likely have a few years on you too, so it is all relevant. I had a fairly good earning capacity, but some times life throws spin wheels at you and the job I had was no longer paying enough to replace a couples wages.

You are forgetting that I have those loses on top of that.

When I was on the ferry coming over here 2 years ago, my Sister went into labour and it lasted 24 hours. I cried all the way here. I cried on the ferry so much the guy working there gave me a free drink and his phone number.

I lost my best friend to cancer and thank God it happened on a return visit where I was sorting something out to make sure that I could afford to pay for my Son to stay at home.

As soon as I'm qualified in the job I'm training for I intend to go back home so I can play a role in my Sisters life. She had a degenerating disease, so she is coping now, but in a few years time she won't be and I want to be able to help with her Daughter. I have goals and they all lead to going back to my home, where I belong. I'm here, because I was scared of being discovered and I'm a crap liar and I didn't want my family to suffer any more than they already are.

I know people think England is more broad minded, but since they won't even allow a sex shop where I come from, it is not the same all over. It's a small village mentality and since the job I had before was quite professional and up standing and something my Mum was proud of, I think it would hurt her bad if she knew and I don't want my Son to ever feel that I had to do this because of him, as he may not understand that I actually don't mind the job at all, I just wish could do it at home.

I'm very isolated here. I miss my family and mostly I miss the friends that I have had to stop talking to, because I was scared that they wouldn't understand.

I miss my life.

My biggest fear is that my Mum will die of old age before I go back home, but I just want to pay off my debts, so I can go home with a clean slate and be free of all the worries that I incurred while trying to re-educate myself and bring up a pre-school child while at Uni. At the time I had rose tinted glasses and I was married and I never expected to find myself in the position I was in.

Maybe I'm too proud, but I refuse to go on the dole, or give up. I made those debts, so I should pay them and in time I will. I just hope the sand doesn't run out before I do.

[nonpareil]

Thank you. I know I'm getting a little over rattled here, but after spending the last year fighting against criminilisation, spending Months writing a submission to the DAIL and in some cases risking my own identity to have a voice, it is upsetting that people think that the risks that we take as Escorts is so little in comparison, or that our livelihoods matter so little. Why do they think we can just move on without a second glance? Do they really think all Escorts have a choice?

We all have to work towards what we want in life, it is rarely handed on a plate, it just really upsets me when some show such low regard or respect for the very women they have been seeing.

It makes me feel like I shouldn't have bothered and I don't want to feel that way

Some guys here are quite young and don't know as much about your world as you or they might think.Most are not necessarily the listener or talker that I may be during appointments.

[themanofwar]

Some escorts own apartments and rent these out to friends and acquaintances,

[weeschmoo]

Is the barely concealed resentment shown by some on this thread, shown to all women earning a crust in Ireland, or does the misogyny only apply to escorts, because in your minds they charge too much for having to spend time with yous?

June the 1st, the client will run little risk compared to the continuing risks sex workers have always lived with.

[Curvaceous Kate]

Some escorts own apartments and rent these out to friends and acquaintances,

Do they own them, or rent them? Escorts in Sweden have been prosecuted for doing this. They also lost their apartments. That can also happen here already and of course they would lose their deposit.

[themanofwar]

Do they own them, or rent them? Escorts in Sweden have been prosecuted for doing this. They also lost their apartments. That can also happen here already and of course they would lose their deposit.

No, own them and rents out to her escort friends but if a friend ask could she use it while in town it would be difficult to refuse.

[BIGBAGDOM]

Is the barely concealed resentment shown by some on this thread, shown to all women earning a crust in Ireland, or does the misogyny only apply to escorts, because in your minds they charge too much for having to spend time with yous?

June the 1st, the client will run little risk compared to the continuing risks sex workers have always lived with.

thats crap, escorts were in the eyes of the law never legally seen as criminals like clients will be come June, and you say run little risk, how you know? I actually live beside a PSNI Officer and their workload is not that big now and they will clamp down at the start, ok they might not be as successful as they would like but they can harass and make life very uneasy for client. It changes things