My uncle is 41, separated as past 5 years but doesn't go out now, He has not been with a woman since, I tell him why doesn't he go to the nightclubs/ pubs and pick up a younger model, he just laughed and says who wants a man that over 40, they would be calling me a cradle snatcher. He even doesn't like to admit his age and I thought women were bad, He really does believe that life is over and no woman would want him at that age.