Over the hill at 40

[themanofwar]

My uncle is 41, separated as past 5 years but doesn't go out now, He has not been with a woman since, I tell him why doesn't he go to the nightclubs/ pubs and pick up a younger model, he just laughed and says who wants a man that over 40, they would be calling me a cradle snatcher. He even doesn't like to admit his age and I thought women were bad, He really does believe that life is over and no woman would want him at that age.

[willie wacker]

My uncle is 41, separated as past 5 years but doesn't go out now, He has not been with a woman since, I tell him why doesn't he go to the nightclubs/ pubs and pick up a younger model, he just laughed and says who wants a man that over 40, they would be calling me a cradle snatcher. He even doesn't like to admit his age and I thought women were bad, He really does believe that life is over and no woman would want him at that age.

You are never too old and not over the hill at 40!!!
I think his confidence is shattered after his break up and might not like to be rejected again.
Maybe you should bring up the subject slowly about escorting and slowly talk to him about the scene.
Maybe if he was with one or two then his confidence might come back and he might then have a different outlook

[amylove69]

He could be visiting the sexy girls already but chooses to be discreet about it.

[SteveB]

It is hard to help someone in that situation. No, he is not “over the hill” but how to convince him of that? And without being seen as interfering in his life?
I have a female relative who is in her late nineties who treats her nieces and nephews who are over seventy as children. When you are well on in your nineties a seventy-year old appears young. But forty nowadays is not old.

[Sexy Sandy 69]

40 is certainly not over the hill, however I think he needs to work on his self esteem to gain a more positive outlook on life. He needs another focus in his life, do a bit of local research, there might be social events he could attend, where the emphasis is on friendship, offer to go with him if it helps. It may a dance club, cinema project, gardening group etc, once he's aware that he has options and increases his circle of friends, he'll have more opportunities & he can move on.

Sandy x

[Westsidex]

He could be visiting the sexy girls already

maybe thats why he turned forty so quick.

Westside.

[themanofwar]

maybe thats why he turned forty so quick.

Westside.

What is the age Forty to you Westside. a distant memory maybe

[borkeman]

My uncle is 41, separated as past 5 years but doesn't go out now, He has not been with a woman since, I tell him why doesn't he go to the nightclubs/ pubs and pick up a younger model, he just laughed and says who wants a man that over 40, they would be calling me a cradle snatcher. He even doesn't like to admit his age and I thought women were bad, He really does believe that life is over and no woman would want him at that age.

You don't meet women in pubs and nightclubs so he would only be wasting his time there anyway...

[Clyde]

I'm 48 and in my prime....

[themanofwar]

I'm 48 and in my prime....

But don't escorts lie about their ages so Please stay out of this thread bb, i'll be starting an over 50's later and your welcome to leave your comment there...thank you