Is 44ish too old to begin seeing escorts?

[Curvaceous Kate]

To the title question I would say no not at all. If it is right for you is another question.

I have had a few clients who have been out of the loop for various reasons and some who not lost their mojo, but lost their ability to detect when a woman in the real world is interested in them or not. They often worry that they don't know what they are doing, as they either have little experience or have only had a few or one partner in their life before, so it all feels rather strange.

After seeing a lady in this profession, they have regained their confidence and started to become more aware of when they are being chatted up or a woman is interested in them and felt able to take control of the situation. Of course that means someone like me loses a great client, but it's worth it to see the people that we get to know happy and move on to the next stage of their lives, as rest assured, the same will happen to us one day and we hope you will be happy for us too when that happens.

Yes it can provide conflict and I did have one client who started seeing a lady and initially he was really keen and pleased and then one day he called me to tell me that it was me he wanted and me he kept thinking about. I was honest with him and reminded him that our time together was just a moment in time. He didn't know the real me and how I behaved out of work and visa versa, so to not give up on what he has that is real, for something that is essentially a fantasy.

Some time later I got a text thanking me and telling me I was right. This was an intelligent man with a good professional job. He was not desperate, but he needed to adjust to his new situation after being with the same lady for many years. It's natural to feel that way and if there is a solution that works, then why not try it? Just remember to listen to yourself and don't ignore the signs if you find it stressful or too complicated.

[UB40]

Yes 44 is too old to start! -any other questions you need answered!

[arealgent]

Age is a red herring issue.

A question for you is are you emotionally ready to handle what you will get - a relatively brief moment of fantasy and ecstacy. the moment will, if you choose the right lady, be wonderful and then it will be gone. If the hole that leaves behind is too much for you to cope with, then beware.

If that all sounds like a load of bollocks, then you are probably OK!!

[Westsidex]

And would it be a foolish decision?

Hello to the forum members. I'm looking for some advice.
I find myself single now for almost 2 years after losing my partner from a wonderful long term relationship. I have begun to get some offers from women but to be very honest I don't find myself sexually attracted to them. A lot of the women near my age in my crowd have really let themselves go. I'm sorry if that is too blunt.

I suppose if I was to begin seeing escorts they would be in the mid twenties to mid thirties range. Would starting down this path leave me completely unattracted to women around my age and make having another relationship even less unlikely than it seems now? Is it a Pandora's box I shouldn't open?

I don't have much time left for dating after work as I have two great kids who make it their business to knacker me out every day.
I would appreciate any honest answers even if it's to tell me to cop on and leave this lifestyle to the single guys.
thanks

The older the better imo because you would have a lot more cop on than younger guys.

Westside.

[Westsidex]

Yes 44 is too old to start! -any other questions you need answered!

That pretty much sums up my answer to the guy.

thanks for verifying,
Westside.

[Westsidex]

After seeing a lady in this profession, they have regained their confidence

and lost their wealth. hehhehehehe

life is soooooooooo cruel hehhehe
Westside.

[bootboy]

I have clients who had their first punt in their 80s. You're never too old to start.

Ahh, the future looks bright.

[bootboy]

To the title question I would say no not at all. If it is right for you is another question.

I have had a few clients who have been out of the loop for various reasons and some who not lost their mojo, but lost their ability to detect when a woman in the real world is interested in them or not. They often worry that they don't know what they are doing, as they either have little experience or have only had a few or one partner in their life before, so it all feels rather strange.

After seeing a lady in this profession, they have regained their confidence and started to become more aware of when they are being chatted up or a woman is interested in them and felt able to take control of the situation. Of course that means someone like me loses a great client, but it's worth it to see the people that we get to know happy and move on to the next stage of their lives, as rest assured, the same will happen to us one day and we hope you will be happy for us too when that happens.

Yes it can provide conflict and I did have one client who started seeing a lady and initially he was really keen and pleased and then one day he called me to tell me that it was me he wanted and me he kept thinking about. I was honest with him and reminded him that our time together was just a moment in time. He didn't know the real me and how I behaved out of work and visa versa, so to not give up on what he has that is real, for something that is essentially a fantasy.

Some time later I got a text thanking me and telling me I was right. This was an intelligent man with a good professional job. He was not desperate, but he needed to adjust to his new situation after being with the same lady for many years. It's natural to feel that way and if there is a solution that works, then why not try it? Just remember to listen to yourself and don't ignore the signs if you find it stressful or too complicated.

Good post Kate and yes I think visiting escorts does help break down barriers and can restore a guy's mojo. I have been single now for a few years, so I get this point.

I also sense that your own confidence has soared in the last couple of years ?

[Curvaceous Kate]

Good post Kate and yes I think visiting escorts does help break down barriers and can restore a guy's mojo. I have been single now for a few years, so I get this point.

I also sense that your own confidence has soared in the last couple of years ?

That happened 4 years prior to Escorting, when I started Swinging. I'm a decade into all this now, so confidence sexually is never an issue for me. I'm used to being with people I don't know too well and no confidence issues with strangers, mine have always been with regard to that 4 letter word, so in a way I'm far safer in this world that the real one.

Your weakness can also be your strength x

[MALCOLM]

Maybe its the best time to start visiting escorts, its the time when no ordinary sane woman in the street would look at you,
you start to lose your hair, (except for the ears and nose) you get the spare tyre, your looks fade, you can't get it up, The girls still say I'm beautiful and I used to be good looking but now I'm just a ugly basterd