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  1. Default Is 44ish too old to begin seeing escorts?

    And would it be a foolish decision?

    Hello to the forum members. I'm looking for some advice.
    I find myself single now for almost 2 years after losing my partner from a wonderful long term relationship. I have begun to get some offers from women but to be very honest I don't find myself sexually attracted to them. A lot of the women near my age in my crowd have really let themselves go. I'm sorry if that is too blunt.

    I suppose if I was to begin seeing escorts they would be in the mid twenties to mid thirties range. Would starting down this path leave me completely unattracted to women around my age and make having another relationship even less unlikely than it seems now? Is it a Pandora's box I shouldn't open?

    I don't have much time left for dating after work as I have two great kids who make it their business to knacker me out every day.
    I would appreciate any honest answers even if it's to tell me to cop on and leave this lifestyle to the single guys.
    thanks

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    Quote Originally Posted by Not Tyler Durden View Post
    And would it be a foolish decision?

    Hello to the forum members. I'm looking for some advice.
    I find myself single now for almost 2 years after losing my partner from a wonderful long term relationship. I have begun to get some offers from women but to be very honest I don't find myself sexually attracted to them. A lot of the women near my age in my crowd have really let themselves go. I'm sorry if that is too blunt.

    I suppose if I was to begin seeing escorts they would be in the mid twenties to mid thirties range. Would starting down this path leave me completely unattracted to women around my age and make having another relationship even less unlikely than it seems now? Is it a Pandora's box I shouldn't open?

    I don't have much time left for dating after work as I have two great kids who make it their business to knacker me out every day.
    I would appreciate any honest answers even if it's to tell me to cop on and leave this lifestyle to the single guys.
    thanks
    I love how you made a relationship sound like a disease there


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    If we left it to the single guys thered be no escorts

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    Interesting read, but it seems looks are high for a relationship for u, maybe u should try Tinder, there are women 30-45 plus on there, some fit looking. While spending time with escorts is very pleasurable, it's really just fantasy. A relationship is totally different, if your not looking for a woman for companionship and sharing your life together then I don't see a problem that your seeing escorts as long as you understand what it is. Sorry to hear about your wife.
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    You're never too old to begin seeing escorts. There are many incredibly sexy women advertising on this website who will provide you with unbelievably satisfying sexual experiences.

    Would starting down this path leave me completely unattracted to women around my age and make having another relationship even less unlikely than it seems now?

    Not necessarily. There's a difference between paying an escort for sex and companionship and forming a conventional relationship with a woman that you get to know. You'll discover that seeing escorts is wonderful but its no substitute for having a loving partner and a genuine romance. That's my opinion anyhow.

    Is it a Pandora's box I shouldn't open?

    That's an interesting question. I often wonder how things would have turned off if I didn't make the fateful decision back in March 2008 to see my first escort. If there is danger with punting it's that you may find it too good, too enjoyable, too exciting. You may find yourself checking this website every day and booking escorts at every available opportunity. What starts out as a once-off may turn into a regular and, I have to emphasise this, expensive habit.
    All I'll say regarding this is that you should set yourself a clear limit on the amount of money you will allow yourself to spend on escorts and stick to it. Believe me, these women are so fucking sexy it can easily get out of control and eat away at your bank balance.

    And would it be a foolish decision?

    No. Just choose the right lady and think twice before seeing an escort with unverified pics and who doesn't allow clients to write reviews. Enjoy!

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    There are some stunning ladies on here in the age bracket you mention, but I believe you have absolutely hit the nail on the head with not finding women your own age sexually attractive.
    Ultimately you may wind up dissatisfied with seeing escorts as it is in the end an empty and vacuous activity, though of course extremely enjoyable when you're in the moment.

    So I reckon you need to think about your future aspirations. If you would like to form a loving relationship with a new partner, then my advice is to steer clear. Jumping in may make that harder or impossible to achieve. If on the other hand, you have no interest in a new relationship then jump right on in and enjoy yourself.

    Don't pay any attention to the other posters on here. Many of the clients are utterly gormless, and the ladies are intelligent, beguiling and motivated by their own self interest.
    Just can't give this mad shit up

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    “I see it all perfectly; there are two possible situations — one can either do this or that. My honest opinion and my friendly advice is this: do it or do not do it — you will regret both.”

    ― Søren Kierkegaard

    id say you wont regret seeing some escorts though.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Meursault View Post
    “I see it all perfectly; there are two possible situations — one can either do this or that. My honest opinion and my friendly advice is this: do it or do not do it — you will regret both.”

    ― Søren Kierkegaard

    id say you wont regret seeing some escorts though.
    Je ne regret rien


    Meursault is an honourable exception to my remark above re clients
    Just can't give this mad shit up

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    Many escort clients are far older than 44 and many will have started far older as well.
    Age is not an issue.
    "Where's your head at?" a line from some song, may apply to you .You need to know what you want or are happy with.
    If you want the company of a beautiful Yong woman from time to time and have no hang ups about it -fine, but don't get too emotionally involved cos she's unlikely to
    Also if money is an issue, only spend what you can afford.You say you are newly single so you will not be "cheating" on a partner (yet at the end you do not include yourself among the single guys -guess here , you're talking about family/childless guys).
    As a family man escorts would have to be a secret part of your life and this can place a strain on some (the fear of being found out)
    Maybe think about it for a while, and if still intrigued, try it once with a well reviewed escort and if it's not for you , then you can leave it alone and walk away.

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    I only started escorting just over 2 years ago honey. xx

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    Quote Originally Posted by Not Tyler Durden View Post
    And would it be a foolish decision?

    Hello to the forum members. I'm looking for some advice.
    I find myself single now for almost 2 years after losing my partner from a wonderful long term relationship. I have begun to get some offers from women but to be very honest I don't find myself sexually attracted to them. A lot of the women near my age in my crowd have really let themselves go. I'm sorry if that is too blunt.

    I suppose if I was to begin seeing escorts they would be in the mid twenties to mid thirties range. Would starting down this path leave me completely unattracted to women around my age and make having another relationship even less unlikely than it seems now? Is it a Pandora's box I shouldn't open?

    I don't have much time left for dating after work as I have two great kids who make it their business to knacker me out every day.
    I would appreciate any honest answers even if it's to tell me to cop on and leave this lifestyle to the single guys.
    thanks
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