What are you views on someone being submissive, weak or strong?

[slavetoyou]

submission they are both built on the foundation of trust and respect.

and the funny thing is the person with the most control is the submissive, not the dominant

Totally agree but you would be surprised how some people even escorts who advertise "Domination" think. Some think they can do what they want at the expense of the subs requests.

[Westsidex]

My views are they should have better things to think about in life.

Westside.

[Westsidex]

they also want a woman to take control, v

Safe to say they arent married so.

Westside.

[Pleasure seeker]

Totally agree but you would be surprised how some people even escorts who advertise "Domination" think. Some think they can do what they want at the expense of the subs requests.

if that is happening with escorts then they are not doing their job right, they are not following what the client needs and wants.

as long as everything is made clear from the start there should never be any problems.

there are a lot of people out there who have odd ideas on what bdsm is and what domination and submission is, some use it as an easy way to get sex, others use it as a way to abuse someone. the bdsm lifestyle is very complex and so are the people in it, one should always be careful when getting involved in bdsm play or relationships for everyones safety

[Pleasure seeker]

you as a client must understand that if there is a demand people are going to offer it, even if they have never done it before. finding people who are genuine about their roles in the lifestyle can be hard as i would imagine most here would be doing domination because there is a demand for it and not because it is their lifestyle.

reading profiles and getting to know escorts who are genuine about their lifestyle in bdsm is important in order to get what you need and desire