New Year, New Rules...

[big daddy 69]

ya know the rule; guard yer tool speakin of which, could u lend f*ckin us a couple a spanners there mate, f*ckin swear to give em back mate OR IT WILL BE YER TOOL SHED YOUR GUARDIN, f*ckin speakin of which, wud ya keep this here box in yours for a bit? Eh f*ckin eh?

Ye i'v got a spanner set & a whole lot of little treats for neighbours like yerselves all youv got do do is mind sumthin for me Johnney allen will knock in with the details

[ninebythree]

Sorry, can't talk right now. My head is stuck in the loo.

did u get the package i left there earlier for u

nbt

[knight-mayors]

Ye i'v got a spanner set & a whole lot of little treats for neighbours like yerselves all youv got do do is mind sumthin for me Johnney allen will knock in with the details

Ay f*ckin great we were put outta liverpool so we came to dublin, like home to f*ckin home

the women in f*ckin dublin av changed, used to be they all had orange hair and white faces, now they all got white hair and orange f*ckin faces

that johnney allen has threw us out of a few f*ckin houses put in a good word 4 us big lad

[clarence hilten]

Is it true what i have heard about you and (ducky) something going on there - you and Ms Clarence are a bit of an item..........think its nice you found each other.

oooooooohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh its just soooooo TRUE!

Big daddy rang and said he needed an escort i says "ooooh yes, where would you like me to go with you big boy"

he sort of chuckled and says "you know clarence"

so i says "lets go to the karaoke"

and we did

ooooohhhhh it was wonderful, we did all the hits together

we were donny and marie osmonds singing "paper roses"

then as our finale we sang like john travolta and olivia newton-john "your the one that i want"

and then big daddy done his tribute to Pavarotti well he cant sing like him but hes just as big

up ducky
clarence

[dreamon]

Sorry Patricia I have no wish to walk down that horrible road again but although I agree in large part to you're post of which the above is a part I must point out that there are two separate issues here which you are entwining as one,

I made that demand that the details be put back up when the first person published my details but on the second time they were posted a few weeks ago I explained to you privately why I took the course of action that I took when they were first posted. You are the only one I entrusted that info with and would hope you understand why I did what I did. I was discommoded to a degree in what was done to me by two people who have suffered zero ill effect for my horrendous crime of helping and taking part here but at the end of the day I am not a punter and have not cheated on anyone. All I did was take part and be trustful when I should not have been and will not be in future here but will continue to be in the real world. Its neither my fault nor my problem that there are so many messed up people in this realm who have no concept of either right or wrong or any common sense or decency or most sadly seem to not grasp the basic principles I was defending here and the more I learn of this world the more resolved I become to never become involved other then via this medium. Most everyone seems to me to be damaged in some way or another and anyone who thinks otherwise is not doing themselves any favors. The extent of what level that damage takes is wholly dependent on how aware the person is on the toll this lifestyle will take on them (male or female, does not matter) even if that toll is only financial on the part of client but a far greater toll WILL be paid by the vast majority of Escorts. It is sadly unavoidable. I see it already in some of their posts.

I have made the brief acquaintance of only 5 (both sides) who I feel are equipped to suffer the least in walking such a winding road as this towards whatever destination they aspire to arrive and I wish them and all others safety in their journeys but my overriding feeling in all these months here is one of how damaging this lifestyle ultimately is to everyone involved even if they avoid the obvious pitfalls.

I asked for very little in my Pm to you a few weeks ago, not even that the person be banned and you went much further then I asked and my opinion of you has changed to the positive as a result. All this is a storm in a tea cup for me as all I have done is engage with people. Not bully, not intimidate, not nothing. Only talk and where I was in error I apologized publicly and have not seen others do that. If would appear that sorry is indeed the hardest word here if not in the real world.

But make no mistake that it is ONLY a storm in a tea cup for me because I am not a punter. If I had been one of ANY of you, Escort or Client and also been as trusting as I mistakenly was then my world and the ones dependent on me would be wrecked now.

So with the greatest respect to those that think the fun will be taken out of here simply by a few basic rules of human decency being observed. I submit that I saw no “fun” either in my family being insulted in the worst way possible and my details being posted and also being called a psychopath for doing what any half decent man would try to do so if all those happy pursuits are your idea of “fun” and you enjoyed reading them then I suggest you have a very squewed idea of what pass’s for entertainment.

No one, including me wants it to turn into a police state here but the actions of a few have forced that requirement on all of you so do not blame Patricia for this as it is not her fault. You know who is to blame but will you have the balls to tell them that on their joyous return ?.

I doubt it, and I say again, not my problem...

It took you a long time to figure out what I tried to tell you many months ago. We are all dysfunctional here. It is a prerequisite for being here, so it is a bit pointless coming on here getting upset because someone is dysfunctional. If posters did not support you in the past it is because they understand this. We are all flawed in different ways but we need to help and support each other rather than harping on about the flaws. If you keep on at someone in this way it only makes things worse. Everybody has good and bad in them and are, basically, different shades of grey, whereas you, in the past, have seen everything in black and white. I am not getting at you, just welcoming you to the real world

[Quarterpoundher]

I always see the grey areas in any situation but that does not mean one should not try and do what you can to make those grey areas not as grey by doing the right thing no matter what the consequences. So I thank you for the welcome to the real world Dreamon but I assure you I have residency in it for quite some time.

I did my little bit in that regard here. Others have done far more. It was forced upon me to do that. I did not go looking for any white whale. I was perfectly happy just taking part and learning about this lifestyle and yes you are right that certain individuals are indeed quite dysfunctional and some had issue with my doing what I felt needed to be done and that is for their conscience to deal with if they have one. You are right in that I at one point had no idea just how f**ked up some people here are as I have never thankfully had to meet such people in real life but on the flip side I also have been very lucky to get to know some very nice and balanced people from both sides and am a better person for having known them and my horizons have been broadened which is one reason that brought me here in the first place.

And for the record I was given tonnes of support from people not afraid to speak there mind either on boards or those who do not post but told me their problems encountered here and who see the importance of this place becoming a true “FORUM” and not a place for ineffectual imbeciles to try and ruin a Woman’s livelihood at every opportunity when they have done nothing wrong but tread on the chauvinistic toes of control freaks and wannabe men by simply speaking their mind or run anyone out of dodge who has a differing point of view and quite frankly anyone who cannot see the value, logic or simply the fairness of that is not anyone I wish to engage with.

That is not what a forum is, that is just a kangaroo court.

Not directing that at you Dreamon as you are one of few who take the time to post with intelligence and manners. Yes I see that a place such as this will always have messers but when any one messer “HAD” the means at one time to significantly impact on another human beings livelihood for no valid reason then that cannot be allowed to stand and any true client who cannot see how putting a perfectly good Escort to the wall for vindictive and personal reasons is damaging to both sides and in fact diminishes ALL clients options then they have to concede that they are not true clients at all.

Yes it is just a message board and no one is forced to post but those that do should not have to wade through such filth as was once allowed to be given rank and vile reign towards anyone who ventured a differing point of view.

These rules and mods will improve this place immeasurably and will encourage more people to take part and that is good for everyone from the owners pocket to Escorts and also for true Clients who if like me and this has been said to me much prefer to engage to some degree with Escorts here before deciding anything and that is basically at the core of my endeavors in the past. Just to promote dialogue, nothing more as if people cannot speak in comfort then nothing here can ever improve.

And it would astound you just who pmed me and expressed their doubts about certain people here.

Best regards Dreamon…Qph…

[dom]

I always see the grey areas in any situation but that does not mean one should not try and do what you can to make those grey areas not as grey by doing the right thing no matter what the consequences. So I thank you for the welcome to the real world Dreamon but I assure you I have residency in it for quite some time.

I did my little bit in that regard here. Others have done far more. It was forced upon me to do that. I did not go looking for any white whale. I was perfectly happy just taking part and learning about this lifestyle and yes you are right that certain individuals are indeed quite dysfunctional and some had issue with my doing what I felt needed to be done and that is for their conscience to deal with if they have one. You are right in that I at one point had no idea just how f**ked up some people here are as I have never thankfully had to meet such people in real life but on the flip side I also have been very lucky to get to know some very nice and balanced people from both sides and am a better person for having known them and my horizons have been broadened which is one reason that brought me here in the first place.

And for the record I was given tonnes of support from people not afraid to speak there mind either on boards or those who do not post but told me their problems encountered here and who see the importance of this place becoming a true “FORUM” and not a place for ineffectual imbeciles to try and ruin a Woman’s livelihood at every opportunity when they have done nothing wrong but tread on the chauvinistic toes of control freaks and wannabe men by simply speaking their mind or run anyone out of dodge who has a differing point of view and quite frankly anyone who cannot see the value, logic or simply the fairness of that is not anyone I wish to engage with.

That is not what a forum is, that is just a kangaroo court.

Not directing that at you Dreamon as you are one of few who take the time to post with intelligence and manners. Yes I see that a place such as this will always have messers but when any one messer “HAD” the means at one time to significantly impact on another human beings livelihood for no valid reason then that cannot be allowed to stand and any true client who cannot see how putting a perfectly good Escort to the wall for vindictive and personal reasons is damaging to both sides and in fact diminishes ALL clients options then they have to concede that they are not true clients at all.

Yes it is just a message board and no one is forced to post but those that do should not have to wade through such filth as was once allowed to be given rank and vile reign towards anyone who ventured a differing point of view.

These rules and mods will improve this place immeasurably and will encourage more people to take part and that is good for everyone from the owners pocket to Escorts and also for true Clients who if like me and this has been said to me much prefer to engage to some degree with Escorts here before deciding anything and that is basically at the core of my endeavors in the past. Just to promote dialogue, nothing more as if people cannot speak in comfort then nothing here can ever improve.

And it would astound you just who pmed me and expressed their doubts about certain people here.

Best regards Dreamon…Qph…

QPH et al,

In your previous post you mentioned how this hadn't been a 'fun' site in a while and all you went through.
I assume that that was a reply to my own earlier post?

We have had limited contact during my time visiting this site - though any contact we have had has been of good nature.
And has been of a relatively mundane and unimportant content.
And that is what sites like this should be filled with.

I do have sympathy for you and what went on with bigpaws - another member I never had much contact with but did feel his influence and control over this site was overbearing and i did speak out and question all of his reviews once he admitted a review he gave for Gemma (I think it was her) was for an encounter which was followed by a session they maintained for the next couple of hours 'by mutual consent' - I just don't believe if you are in anyway involved with an escort and having a 'normal' sexual relationship with them that you can review them honestly or independently.

But similarly, nobody can change the world through a site that is filled with masked users - be it false names - both site members and escorts - or false photos and no recourse to anyone posting anything they want - be it true or not - knowing that there will be no consequences as the whole thing is fantasy anyway.

I am not having a go here, i am just expressing my opinion - but I believe you were incredibly naive to be giving out personal info or to become embroiled in any situation that realistically you had no tangible way of resolving.

Personally I enjoy this site for some of the lighter topics, the witty coments and of course the titillation of pictures (or videos in certain instances) of beautiful women scantily clad and discussing sexual behaviour.

My only gripe is with Lizzy who has spoiled that since she arrived on this site with some of the most vile, racist and offensive posts and comments I have read on any site.
And my continued disbelief that she is not only allowed to continue on this site but allowed total access again.
I wonder if any other member made repeated offensive postings towards say black people as she has towwards the Irish, would Pat have been so willing to turn a blind eye?
I doubt it.

But the amount of rules which are now going to be 'implemented' is ridiculous.
we are all big boys - and girls - here and once we go to the bother of registering so as to use the forums on an escort website, well really, I think you have to take responsibility for how much of the real you you want to expose to other users - at your own risk.

dom

[Hot Lizzy]

Thats an offer I cant refuse Elizabeth. Eight days thats a long week.

Hey Man,

As the beatles wrote, 8 days a week is all ive got to love you is that gonna be long enough for you to love me ........ I miss calling you Clint - sorry to use your real name but me thinks its not - so..........but if it is let me know precious.

You Lizzy awaits you xxxxxxx

[Hot Lizzy]

oooooooohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh its just soooooo TRUE!

Big daddy rang and said he needed an escort i says "ooooh yes, where would you like me to go with you big boy"

he sort of chuckled and says "you know clarence"

so i says "lets go to the karaoke"

and we did

ooooohhhhh it was wonderful, we did all the hits together

we were donny and marie osmonds singing "paper roses"

then as our finale we sang like john travolta and olivia newton-john "your the one that i want"

and then big daddy done his tribute to Pavarotti well he cant sing like him but hes just as big

up ducky
clarence

Oh Clarence,

Sounds like you had a fabulous time with him - is he really just as big......... Was it a good date after the Karaoke - must of been a long booking - how much did you charge him - come on ducky i wont tell a soul - nobody reads this anyway.

Im guessing that if you went back to Hilton Towers in Dublin that he liked your home - was he impressed - ohhhhhhhhh ducky i so want to know..........did he have any presents for you or for darling Pompom.......

Guess it must of come as some surprise to find out that you were a virgin - must be the first he has deflowered in a very long time.

Lots of Love and do tell - can't wait to know all the details and i know that you would love to share them with us all.

I should tell you that annasavicha has a crush on him........ohhhhhhh ducky dont make her jealous cos you know what that Latvian temper of hers is like.

xxx You Niece........... xxx

[The Man With No Name]

Hey Man,

As the beatles wrote, 8 days a week is all ive got to love you is that gonna be long enough for you to love me ........ I miss calling you Clint - sorry to use your real name but me thinks its not - so..........but if it is let me know precious.

You Lizzy awaits you xxxxxxx

Clint is my name. Im the real deal.