After a somewhat mediocre visit to an escort I had the first few months of 2015 disillusioned with the whole idea of Escorts. I found the mindset that I was looking at the ladies I have enjoyed spending time with, through rose-tinted glasses and that I wouldn't bother again.
Enter a Brazilian Goddess to the site, and I was filled with that curiosity again of 'Can this woman actually be as she advertises?'
So, after MONTHS of putting it off, I bit the bullet and made a booking. The sexy voice was the first thing which made me smile. The feeling of anticipation as you near the building, and the nerves it has to be said, and that nagging doubt of whether you are going to actually meet the woman in the pictures.
I need not have worried. the door opened, and standing behind it was a vision of beauty. Not only was she the girl in the pics, but her face was just as cute as at was sexy.
I'd forgot how skilled the most of these ladies are at making you feel 10 ft tall. I'd forgot how whatever physical act takes place is only half the experience.
The truth is, that instead of criminalizing visiting an escort, they should be encouraging it in certain cases.
With this lady (and I mean Lady) for just over half an hour out of what has been a truly difficult few months, I was her 100% focus. No responsibility, no what if/maybe and no commitment on either side. Someone who was interested in me, albeit I am totally aware I was paying for it, and someone who pinpointed things to make a big deal out of when chatting, which made me actually look at myself a bit more positively.
I cannot believe that in times of depression (from which I suffer) the powers that be want to give us a criminal record for getting away from the daily slog for a while. They should be taking advice from these women (Amora VIP, Irish Sarah, Great Kamilla and Evelin spring to mind) instead on how to deal with male depression, as suicide was in the news again recently.
Yes, there are some bad experiences with Escorts to be had. But through all my tough times, that half an hour / hour out has sometimes given me the lift i need to face life a bit more positively.
So, before they strike a pen and sign away our right to "Buy Sex" as they call it, I bet you if they took off the prudish, religious cap and looked at the actual evidence, they'd be asking you ladies for advice.