Is there a scammer in Belfast?

[tom sand]

Hi Kate, I paid a deposit, and just before I left to meet last night, I confirmed the deposit was received and that i was bringing the remainder in cash. Was told that I had to pay remainder in a second gift card, led me to believe that she had received counterfeit cash. I tried to assure her that I am not like that, but that was the way it had to be. So like a very good mark I paid as requested. then that was when everything went pear shaped, with the double booking and then the request that i switch to an overnight and more amoney. So after alot of chat back and forth a fee was agreed and again paid even though I kept insisting on meeting in person first, and then would make the transfer.
All the time alarm bells were going off, but a certain part of my anatomy was making the decisions.
I've tried everything to resolve this, offering to meet for a shorter appointment for the money already paid, meet and pay difference, the whole 9 yards, but its her way or nothing.
I thought that this was a mutual decision making process, where a fee is agreed upon, especially when a price is requested and various options are offered and you both agree on a length of appointment and the price.
This lady (used with me biting my lip) is going to ruin the Belfast scene by her acting like this. And I have spoken to her. I also reported her to the two advertising sites that I have seen her on. Someone said go to the police, well she is banking on me not doing so through the embarassment factor, well I'm not married or in any sort of relationship, thats why I use working girls from time to time, they are fun and can be very good company. My reviews show that I'm not that hard to please, I just ask for honesty (well as much as you good ladies can give us punters), and 99% of the time I have got this, just a few minor blips, but I've only walked away with a few regrets about the service received and in each case I've received a service of some kind.
So what do I do, I've lost a considerable amount of money ( approx 2 hrs of theaverage going rate in Belfast). I've got no come back, as in the money will not be returned,just the "promise" of a meeting if I send more money.
Sorry for the language, but I'm completly pissed off, cause that money could have been used to visit someone else or even spend on me or something else........... This are difficukt times with people starving and this b*tch has taken me for a ride

man
put the cost down to a lession
you paid and learnt it well
now you are better off
you wont do it again
lesson learnt
school over