It's definitely better to take your time with this, don't go rushing into anything or trying to gorge yourself like a child with a free pass to a sweet shop. Even with the best will in the world there are meetings that don't work out as planned and may be disappointing for whatever reason.
But that makes savouring the meetings with those very special ladies you encounter all the more enjoyable and you find yourself looking forward to seeing them again and again and again . . . .
"Nothing is funnier than unhappiness" - Samuel Beckett