The Duo Experience

[mexicanpete]

Had my first a couple of weeks ago. Had been thinking about it for ever and just
Decided nothing ventured nothing gained. Totally something I believe we all should do
If able, a unique experience that lets face it almost never happens in civilian life.
Would I do it in favour of one escort at a time, no.
Actually prefer individual visits as with three it can be a bit busy.
Having said that would i do it again, yes with the right two girls.
Stop thinking about it and to coin a phrase by Nike "just do it"

I am with you on this. I have only ever been with three or four duos, usually where one girl has persuaded me to have her friend join in. They have always been disappointing. I have little interest in two girls working on me but it might appeal to many. I would prefer to concentrate on one girl at a time.

However, in my life I have been in hundreds of threesomes. Some have been embarrassing disasters, some have been mediocre, some have been just about enjoyable but many have been amazing, memorable, horny experiences that have enriched my life. There are many memories that I still enjoy wanking to many years later.

Is sex with a duo not a threesome? The answer in my experience is ‘no’. Duos are almost invariably a couple of escorts that work together. As a duo, they will put on a bit of a lesbian show with some kissing and licking and a lot of oooohs and aaaahs with the sole intention of titillating the guy before they move in to finish him off and get him out the door. I sometimes think that the fact that escorts work together actually inhibits any real sexual excitement between them. If you are into two girls putting on a bit of a show and then both working to bring you off then this is the way for you to go.

For me, a real ffm threesome is very different. You need one girl who is genuinely bisexual and one girl who is at least ‘bi-curious’ and have no ongoing relationship between them which might interfere. The dynamics of the meeting are not one man with two girls there to service him but three equal partners out to give and receive the maximum pleasure. My only advantage as a man is that the girls get to go first. Even though everyone is touching and kissing, this tends to be a turn based process when it comes to orgasms.

After the initial chat and kissing, the more experienced girl and I will usually work on bringing the bi-curious girl to orgasm. When the first girl is finished. I will normally go down on the experienced girl as she is usually so wet by this stage that it can be a turn-off for an inexperienced bi-curious girl so I let them smooch away. In general, working on girls means using your tongue, lips, fingers and not your dick. There are some girls who come easier to orgasm through penetration but they are relatively rare in my experience.

After the second girl orgasms, it is my turn but I am always so excited by this stage, that I come quickly.

The major bonus about threesomes is that they are very often self-regenerating. By the time that I have come to orgasm, the first girl is horny to go again and so on. I have often been around the houses 3 to 4 times in a couple of hours. As I have said, many very memorable experiences.

I have always found that girls get more intense orgasms in threesomes. I do not know whether this is due to the extra stimulation or the ‘badness’ of the situation or both. I was chatting with the girls after a great session recently and I asked one of the girls if she had a preference for men or women as sexual partners. She said that she was about 60% men and about 40% women but that in our sessions she experienced the full 100%.

The question then is; how do you get there? The first thing that you need is the right attitude and that is a recognition that the girls’ enjoyment is at least as important as your enjoyment. The second pre-requisite is a female friend, escort or non-escort, who is genuinely bi-sexual and interested in enjoying sex with another girl. I have found that bi-sexuality is very common in girls but they can be slow to admit to it and even slower to act on it.

In my experience, girlfriends can be problematic when it comes to threesomes because of jealousy and the inevitable impact on the ongoing dynamics of the relationship. I have had girlfriends who were enthusiastic to experiment but the reality of seeing my dick down another woman’s throat inevitably put a dampener on proceedings. The partner that you need in a threesome is the one that gets turned on by watching you with another girl.

Once you have the right partner, you can go hunting in the bars/clubs or consider choosing an escort together. The pros and cons of both are another matter.

I hope that this might help you on your path.