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    No if I have a partner I would not cheat... Im just saying.. End of the day you work in the sex industry .. And was just wondering how diffucult would IT be to tell your potential husband about your work from the start of the realtionship.. Because obviously if you don't be honest then the trust would be gone, so I was wondering do most of you lie.. Or tell the truth

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sixpactballs97 View Post
    No if I have a partner I would not cheat... Im just saying.. End of the day you work in the sex industry .. And was just wondering how diffucult would IT be to tell your potential husband about your work from the start of the realtionship.. Because obviously if you don't be honest then the trust would be gone, so I was wondering do most of you lie.. Or tell the truth
    Therein lies your problem. We are all individuals,most with private lives. I would imagine some women go into sex work while with their partner, some meet their partner while working and others do lie because of the social stigma. And so we go on. Your question makes you sound as though you feel women in the sex industry have something to be ashamed of..why? You tend to fall in love with the person. Not their job.
    Last edited by lucy chambers; 16-04-15 at 19:30.
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    Quote Originally Posted by lucy chambers View Post
    Therein lies your problem. We are all individuals,most with private lives. I would imagine some women go into sex work while with their partner, some meet their partner while working and others do lie because of the social stigma. And so we go on. Your question makes you sound as though you feel women in the sex industry have something to be ashamed of..why? You tend to fall in love with the person. Not their job.
    I'm not saying it's a job to be ashamed of but it is one that's difficult for a partner to get past, more so than if the escort was in another profession like I.T, marketing, medicine for example. I do realise the insecurities of the partner are not the escort's problem but it is a reality. Falling in love with the person and not their job is all well and good, but love isn't a magical cure-all.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sixpactballs97 View Post
    No if I have a partner I would not cheat... Im just saying.. End of the day you work in the sex industry .. And was just wondering how diffucult would IT be to tell your potential husband about your work from the start of the realtionship.. Because obviously if you don't be honest then the trust would be gone, so I was wondering do most of you lie.. Or tell the truth
    why to be difficult?ii think is more difficult for bouth if u hiding and delay the time to tell the truth, then start to be more difficult. so I would say from beginning that i work in adult industry.. if he dont understand or understand wrong ,i will not bother about him means he have a narrow mind and dont deserve me so i will move on most of actress porn stars are married or are in a relation so nothing strange about... at the end of the day we are just regular women with regular private life . A job will not transform u in different person in your private life
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    Quote Originally Posted by Sixpactballs97 View Post
    No if I have a partner I would not cheat... Im just saying.. End of the day you work in the sex industry .. And was just wondering how diffucult would IT be to tell your potential husband about your work from the start of the realtionship.. Because obviously if you don't be honest then the trust would be gone, so I was wondering do most of you lie.. Or tell the truth
    I may have mentioned this before, but we are not a 'collective' like the 'Borg' with one mind. Each person will deal with things in their own way, so there is no one answer, which means you can't have an answer to this question.

    Seriously as you have stated yourself, you are not in a relationship, so we can't also assume that all clients are married and how do they tell their wife? Get what I'm saying?

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