We eat to fuel our bodies
We have sex to procreate
These are fundamental basic instincts
But most people that can also eat for pleasure.
Thus also for sex, we have sex because it's pleasurable.
We are more than our animal urges.
We have big brains that both allow us to rise above our animal instincts and to also derive great pleasure from those instincts.
Sex for pleasure and not just procreation, is also the glue that holds couples together even if it may not last.
The biological imperative behind this is to successfully rear children to adulthood.
Once you have done this you have completed evolutions job.
But we come together as a sum of parts and we tend to be more complex than just a n animal bundle of nerves and hormones.
Curvaceous Kate (12-04-15), Meursault (13-04-15)
Curvaceous Kate (12-04-15)
Men need sex more than women. I was going to see an escort a few days ago and I had a plan to not ejaculate for 3 nights/days. First day OK, on the second night I got very little sleep I was that horny. On the third day I got nothing done at work as I was fantasizing about sex all the time. By the afternoon I had blueballs and was tender down there and in pain. By evening time I was still in pain and had only one thing on my mind. All I had to do was get to the morning. could I. Not a bloody hope!!!
Last edited by paul_m; 12-04-15 at 18:16.
Curvaceous Kate (12-04-15), Naughtynatalie (12-04-15)
That sounds almost poetic, but it does not account for me. My Son is 21. I would never have a child outside of marriage, as I believe that a child needs 2 parents and yet... My best and most exciting sexual years have been while single and not actively wanting to have a child. My child has grown up, I have no partner to use sex as glue with and yet I continue to enjoy and have sex (and not just for money). I was swinging for 4 years before I did this.
Your theory discounts my experience. I also do not intend to stop having sex after I have the menopause.
nonpareil (12-04-15)
amylove69 (12-04-15)
Ah now you are on to something. We produce one egg per Month, so we don't have that 'need' to get rid of it out of our system and it happens once a Month. Whereas you produce sperm regardless that needs an outlet and has a sell by date, so it needs to be renewed and good for when it hits home kind of thing. That sexual urge is about keeping the sperm healthy and ready for penetration.
I had never considered that before.
I had also considered that where most women can multi orgasm, most men can not, so we actually get the better deal and more actual enjoyment from the experience.
Meursault (13-04-15), Naughtynatalie (12-04-15), nonpareil (12-04-15), paul_m (13-04-15)
What does it require to elicit an orgasm with you ? Or multi-orgasm ??
Would like the practice !!