SmallHorn (11-04-15)
I am who I am and I am happy with who I am.
Do you think I was not aware she was a gold digger and maybe looking for a passport.
I could well afford the shopping trips, holidays , nights out etc but I got a lot out of it as well.
Regular fantastic sex , someone to wake up beside in the morning and a bit of company.
Plus it made me feel good to have a beautiful younger woman on my arm.
I used the relationship to help me adjust to single life.
Sleeping on my own is the only regret from my divorce.
It's not the sex just the feeling of having somebody in the bed.
I may be a lot of things but naive and foolish are not 2 of them.
Last edited by happygolucky; 11-04-15 at 07:08.
I am who I am and I am happy with who I am.
I was lucky
During the boom I had 35 people working for me.
Bought property and has cash in the bank.
My separation came at the right time for me financially.
In 07 property prices were still high and we had to sell everything ( except the family home)
And split it 50/50.
I kept the business , but that dropped to me and 3 employees.
So I ended up with an apartment and cash I the bank and a small business , which I had to work hard to keep afloat.
Things on the up again with 10 employees , but I'll never go back to the size it once was.
Too many overheads and too much hassle.
Marriage is what you make it and I had a great one for 20 or so years.
Never once cheated in all my married years and never felt the need to.
We all change over time.
I am who I am and I am happy with who I am.