The question of dating escorts came up in the course of another thread and I thought that posters opinions and experiences in this regard deserved its own thread
In my experience there is a fundamental difference between dating escorts and dating non-escorts. It is not the difference that you are thinking because you always pay for sex in one way or another. The difference is that escorts tend to be open to friendship whereas girls that one might meet at work or in a club tend to be looking for love.
Escorts in the main are intelligent businesswomen following a life goal and the last thing that they want is some man trying to ‘make an honest woman out of them’ or ‘take them away from it all’. Many of them are in the business to get away from or be independent from men that wanted to control them. ‘Love’ is a dangerous word for an escort because today’s lover can easily be tomorrow’s stalker/psycho. If you want to ‘woo’ an escort you must first convince her that you do not love her, you just want her body!!
Ironically, escorting can be a lonely profession and many escorts are open to simple fun and friendship with someone who respects them and respects what they do. Looks tend to be less important to an escort than to other girls. I think that escorts learn to appreciate people more for what they are than what they look like.
I often see the idea touted here that escorts are all hard hearted bitches who are only interested in money. Of course escorts are interested in money as it is their business and why should they treat their business any differently to how a client treats his. That does not mean to say that escorts cannot enjoy their work or make friends in the course of their work like any other profession. Affection and friendliness on the part of an escort is not always faked. If you find that you get on well with an escort and she seems to get on with you then discretely drop hints about interesting places to eat or drink and see if the bait is taken
However, if you are interested in dating an escort because you think that you will get free sex then go back to playing the lotto, you have a far better chance of success