Going back to the original question....
I'd be appalled that an escort would behave in such an unethical fashion.
macdchef (01-04-15)
celticden (31-03-15), willie wacker (31-03-15)
Yes it happens , get over it. Most of this is business , money talks!
willie wacker (31-03-15)
Why does the idea that an escort can have a genuine relationship with a guy always provoke such jealousy masked as cynicism? Charming men regardless of their age or status are always a lure to women.
willie wacker (31-03-15)
sixfourblond (31-03-15), slavetoyou (31-03-15)
I think that you betray yourself a little here. If this genuinely made no difference to you, why would it occur to you to raise the issue????
Escorts date clients all the time and it is not an issue. However, I suspect that the real question is; if you know that a fellow poster is getting sex for free, would you still be happy to pay the full price for it? The answer is that it would make no difference because there is not the slightest chance that he is getting sex for free.
In a mis-spent life, I have dated dozens of escorts, lived with quite a few and even been married and the one thing that has never happened is having sex for free. I can tell you from a vast amount of experience that the time that a girl says that you do not need to pay her is the point that the relationship starts to go downhill and get seriously expensive. One thing that escorts never seem to lose is the relationship between money and sex. I am convinced that they have a little cash register inserted in their brains. It does not matter how much they might enjoy themselves, there is always a little slate being marked. Typically, you might have sex five or six times over a couple of weeks and then find that the girl really needs your help as she is short €2k for the rent. In their little mental calculator the hourly rate goes up as a girlfriend, goes higher as a live-in girlfriend and hits the roof as a wife
My strongest and best advice is that when an escort suggests that you do not need to pay her, insist on paying as you do not want to feel that you are taking advantage of her.
I know that I am going to be castigated by the escorts for saying this but it is the truth of the matter
JAMESCORK (01-04-15), sixfourblond (01-04-15), SophieX (01-04-15)