hello, I also will not confirm an appt. make only by pm. While that may be the initial contact, I find I can usually tell so much by having a little chat, hearing a persons voice and sensing a bit about them. Our voice and speech are a bit of a calling card, of course the visitors to the site have photos however we on the other hand have only the voice, or lovely email or recommendation to go on. I enjoy putting people at ease and hope that my sincerity comes across when speaking on the phone. Of course I do understand the difficulty with those who are not native english speakers communicating via the phone, but they seem to be doing just fine.. and many are very very desirable. so...try to enjoy a bit of a chat before meeting, then it feels like you are meeting, not for the first time but after a connection has been made.
enjoy sweetheart. x Lauren
Originally Posted by
Petros
I usually make first contact with a lady via PM providing they are online regularly. I would normally do this a day or so in advance of my planned meeting to see if the lady would be available.
You can get some idea of a person via PM but when you actually speak to them for the first time on the phone this is where you make a real connection. The fact that they know who is calling them at this point will probably make the call a little more personal.
I know many guys just pick up the phone and ring the ladies — they won't have a clue who it is that is ringing them so might be slightly less personal.
Either way — do you get excited when you talk to a lady for the first time on the phone? Do some excite you more than others? Is it their accent or the way they talk to you?
For me there are a couple of memorable first calls — all for different reasons. One surprised me because I had not contacted her ever previously but she came across as though she really knew me..... Turns out she did know who I was as she had my phone number in her phone (her friend gave it to her) LOL
Another lady had such a sexy voice and seductive accent I just melted — I could hardly take in what she was telling me about the directions to her apartment.
I am a mature (62) and elegant woman whose smile and sexy demeanor will captivate you the moment we meet. One with whom to experience things for the first time or to repeat those of which you never get enough! My unique insight into your very secret desires and fantasies will leave you wondering "how did she know". Come to me and feel the comfort, warmth and acceptance of a woman with whom you can share the most special, unique and unusual of erotic experiences. Warm hugs and sexy moist lips await! Sensual Lauren