Sex versus emotions

[Vitruvian]

All sorts I guess, for me, no emotion no point, just depends how you handle it. :-)

[Curvaceous Kate]

I find that every time I visit a lady that it becomes an emotional as well as sexual experience- sometimes I'm not in the mood to engage my emotions and won't visit then? Maybe this doesn't even make sense but there you go!

It's the hormones produced during an erotic encounter. They are designed to make us want to be a 'couple' and for a little while they can feel very real, but don't worry, as it soon wears off. (around 10 to 20 mins on average)

Does this mean you don't like a good hug after the event? I actually feel really disappointed if I don't get a hug afterwards.

[UB40]

I like hugging before, during and after!!

It's the hormones produced during an erotic encounter. They are designed to make us want to be a 'couple' and for a little while they can feel very real, but don't worry, as it soon wears off. (around 10 to 20 mins on average)

Does this mean you don't like a good hug after the event? I actually feel really disappointed if I don't get a hug afterwards.

[Curvaceous Kate]

I like hugging before, during and after!!

Me too, sadly some guys can manage the before and during, but lose interest at the after bit. You can't beat a good cuddle

[Curvaceous Kate]

I don't even hug my mother.


Nobody is getting one!

tight arse!!! lol

[UB40]

I don't even hug my mother.


Nobody is getting one!

Feck sake - do you need me to do that for you- can do

[JAMESCORK]

I find that every time I visit a lady that it becomes an emotional as well as sexual experience- sometimes I'm not in the mood to engage my emotions and won't visit then? Maybe this doesn't even make sense but there you go!

You are taking this too seriously bud....

Fair enough. But when I visit lady's it has nothing to with emotions.


There you go.

There you go indeed..

Get away from escorts and stay away from them. Thats my advice.

Westside.

Advice... but not the best advice... allow a guy his fantasy surely..

It's the hormones produced during an erotic encounter. They are designed to make us want to be a 'couple' and for a little while they can feel very real, but don't worry, as it soon wears off. (around 10 to 20 mins on average)

Does this mean you don't like a good hug after the event? I actually feel really disappointed if I don't get a hug afterwards.

I go for sex.... I'm shallow like that. I don't sit and chat, fantasize about you being my girlfriend or shit.... I just find you goddamn sexy, so lets fuck....

But... but, I have met honies. girls I click with... girls I can prolong the encounter with... girls I can talk with to tease myself in what is still a selfish sex only engagement...

Once I've had sex.... Im gone...

The end...

[funlover12]

have the fantasy, but remember where it ends. money exchanged -> you rejoining the real world outside the building. and when you think of the memories and wonder what if, remind yourself how it began and why it was booked for a specific time...money!
you may have had a great time and they can be real memories and are entitled to have, think of it as a good experience you had with a girl you liked and she appreciated you... but just always remember that at the first sign of what if thoughts you get you quickly say no and move your thoughts away from her as thats not part of the deal. you can see her again sure, but always remember that golden rule.you have the opportunity to meet her any time you want provided you have cash, girlfriend on call without the negatives that usually go with relationships, enjoy it for what it is.

[funlover12]

00:06 wtf

clocks supposed to go 1hr forward not back, still havent fixed it

[Cosa Nostra]

It's the hormones produced during an erotic encounter. They are designed to make us want to be a 'couple' and for a little while they can feel very real, but don't worry, as it soon wears off. (around 10 to 20 mins on average)

Does this mean you don't like a good hug after the event? I actually feel really disappointed if I don't get a hug afterwards.

Oxytocin, also produced by women during labour and nursing. Men get a surge of oxytocin during orgasm. Scienctists have shown beneficial health effects of oxytocin in lab animals proving that sex is good for you!